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March 19, 2011

Life Mastery Blog

Dear Friends,

Because Social Media has really blossomed in the last few years as a way of exchanging information and ideas, I have begun to regularly post articles and quotes on my Facebook page instead of posting them here on my Blog.

So, if you would like to keep up with those postings, please go to either of my Facebook pages listed below and become a Fan. Then you can receive my postings on a regular basis.

http://www.facebook.com/YanniManiates

http://www.facebook.com/InsideOutJourneys

As well, please check out the "Categories"/Subjects and "Archives" section at the bottom of the right-hand column of my blog site here. There you will find over four years of my previous blogs and podcasts. It is a very rich resource of inspiring information on Intuition, Meditation and Spirituality.

Also, please explore my primary web site: http://www.InsideOutJourneys.com

In addition, look at my newly revised and expanded book and audio package Magical Keys to Self-Mastery at http://www.MagicalKeystoSelfMastery.com

Many Blessings!

Yanni

September 27, 2010

Life Mastery Blog

Because I have too many commitments on my plate presently, I will temporarily not be posting any blogs or podcasts for the next few months. I expect to start posting again in the late Fall of 2010.

In the interim, please check out the "Categories"/Subjects and "Archives" section at the bottom of the right-hand column of my blog site. There you will find over four years of my previous blogs and podcasts. It is a very rich resource of inspiring information on Intuition, Meditation and Spirituality.

As well, please check out my primary web site: http://www.InsideOutJourneys.com

As well, check out my newly revised and expanded book and audio package Magical Keys to Self-Mastery at http://www.MagicalKeystoSelfMastery.com

Many Blessings!

Yanni

June 25, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XXII, Podcast

Because I have too many commitments on my plate presently, I will temporarily not be posting any blogs or podcasts for the next few months. I expect to start posting again in the Fall of 2010.

In the interim, please check out the Archives section at the bottom of the right-hand column of my blog site. There you will find over four years of my previous blogs and podcasts. It is a very rich resource of inspiring information on Intuition, Meditation and Spirituality.

As well, I have not had a chance to record the meditation for this podcast. If you would like to receive a free copy of the mp3 version of my meditation CD: Peace of Mind is Breath Away: Breathing Free Meditations, please email me at: yanni.maniates@verizon.net and I'll send you a link to it for freee.

Many Blessings!

Yanni

June 21, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XXII

This is Part XXII of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

What follows in this blog post is the text of the abdominal breathing meditation which I have recorded as the June 25th, 2009 Podcast. Feel free to either listen to my recording or make your own. As well, read through the text below to get a feel for what you can do to calm yourself down during the day.

Close your eyes now and get nice and comfortable... First thing I would like you to do is to just become aware of your physical body. Notice your feet, how and where they touch the floor. Notice, as well, how you are sitting in your chair, where your body touches the chair and the placement of your arms...

And now become aware, as well, of your whole body. Do a body-scan from the top of your head down to the bottoms of your feet. Just notice if there are any areas that are tight or tense or sore. Or maybe there are areas that feel relaxed. Just have an awareness, not a judgment. Just an awareness of how your body feels.....

Become aware, as well, of your mood, just an awareness of it, don't try to change it.... And your energy level, just an awareness, an objective awareness of how you are right now.

And now I would like you to place your attention on your abdomen and your breathing. I would like you to notice as you breathe in that your abdomen expands slightly. And as you exhale, your abdomen contracts slightly. Now don't force a change in your breathing pattern in order to expand your abdomen; I'm not asking you to change anything, just notice it. Breathing in, the abdomen expands slightly. Breathing out, exhaling, the abdomen contracts, slightly.

So just continue to be aware of your breath, your breathing, your abdomen expanding and your abdomen contracting. Just have an awareness of your breath, your breathing. If there are any distractions or noises that you might hear in the background or foreground, just ignore them. Any thoughts that may come to your mind now; just ignore them, they are not important. Or even any emotions that might bubble up; just ignore them, let them go, let yourself be still and let yourself be quiet.

What I would like you to do now is to begin to see if you can do ten full breaths, a full breath is one inhalation and one exhalation, without getting lost in your thoughts. Find your own rhythm and just see if you can do ten full breaths without losing track. Breathing in, breathing out, without getting lost in your thoughts, emotions or any distractions. Just be present within the stillness of yourself, for it is in that stillness that you will find the real you, that is, a human "being" and not a human "doing."

Continue counting your inhalations and your exhalations. If you lose count and don't make it to ten, that's fine. Start again and start counting all over again. Some thoughts or emotions may make it into your awareness as you do this, but just ignore them and keep counting your breath. Just do you best to keep your primary awareness on your breath. Allow everything else to fade away to recede.

If you get to ten, then just continue counting beyond the ten, just counting the breath, keeping your focus on your abdomen. When you focus on your abdomen and count your breath, it helps to calm you down. It draws the energies down that are bouncing around in your head and grounds them in your belly so to speak. This is a great breath to do whenever you feel anxious, worried or just plain hyper. Just breathe in and breathe out and note the rise and fall of your abdomen as you do.

As you continue, you might even notice or feel that your breathing has become deeper and slower. Your blood pressure is going down and your pulse is slowing. You are releasing relaxation hormones into your blood stream. Physiologically you have made a significant change in your blood chemistry in just these few minutes. Whereas before you may have been in a fight or flight state and your body was tense and poised to run or attack and filled with stress hormones, now you are in a relaxed state, a peaceful state, a healing state. Continue the counting of the breath, the inhalation and the exhalation for a few more breaths....

And now you can begin to let go of your focus on your breath... Make note of what your mood is now.... What your energy level feels like... As you did at the beginning just do a quick body scan from head to toe and just feel, sense, see how your body is doing now....And now become aware of your feet, your abdomen, your chest, your hands, your head, your breathing and your breath. Take a few conscious breaths and begin to come up and out. When you are ready you can begin to open your eyes, with a soft focus, so much more relaxed, so much more at peace, than when we began.

This is Part XXII of a twenty-two part blog.

Hope that you have enjoyed this mini-course on meditation. Wishing you all the best!

Peace be with you!

Yanni

Please go to the following link if you have interest in my award winning book on Meditation and Intuition: http://www.MagicalKeystoSelfMastery.com/

As well, if you have interest in my Meditation CDs, please go to the following link:
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June 18, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XXI, Podcast


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June 14, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XXI

This is Part XXI of a twenty-two part part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it is best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

What follows are some suggestions on how to prepare to sit in a formal meditation:

Now, in terms of how you sit or what you do when you meditate, the most important thing is to make sure you are comfortable. If you have the flexibility to go into the yoga lotus or the half-lotus position, then certainly do so. If you don't have the flexibility, then I would not suggest you do that. You can meditate very effectively sitting comfortably in straight backed chair. This is the way I do it all the time.

Just sit up straight with you spine erect, but not rigid. It is best that your legs are on the ground and are not crossed. Your hands are in your lap, palms up or down, whatever is most comfortable for you. If at any point during the meditation you are uncomfortable, then shift. Move around a bit. If you need to cough, do so. Don't spend ten minutes suppressing a cough or being physically uncomfortable and then conclude that you can't meditate. As well, breathe in and out of your nostrils and not your mouth.

The most important thing to remember is to make sure you are comfortable while you are doing meditation. I might add, though, not so comfortable that you fall asleep. By the way, I do not recommend that you lie on the floor or a bed when you meditate because you are very likely to fall asleep. Lie down only if you have a significant back problem. So, again, the idea is to be as comfortable as possible, yet still alert; and, most importantly, enjoy the experience of "being" with yourself.

Also, make sure that wherever you do the meditation is quiet and let all your "significant others" know that this is your quiet time to take care of yourself.

On my next podcast of June 25,2009 I will lead you in a guided abdominal breathing meditation.

This is Part XXI of a twenty-two part blog.

Please go to the following link if you have interest in my award winning book on Meditation and Intuition: http://www.MagicalKeystoSelfMastery.com/

As well, if you have interest in my Meditation CDs, please go to the following link:
http://www.LearnMastery.com/AudioTapesByYanni.htm

June 11, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XX, Podcast


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June 7, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XX

This is Part XX of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

In conclusion, regarding the many different meditation techniques that are out there, I have been teaching meditation for twenty years and practicing for forty. From my point of view every type or school of meditation is just a technique. Whatever you are most comfortable with and whatever works best for you is the right one for you to do. That is my take on it. So, if a technique works for you, it is the right one! And if at times you need to change the type of meditation you are doing, then certainly do so.

But I have found that working with the breath is the place most meditative traditions begin and that is why I am focusing on it in this mini-course. If you can master this one simple technique, you are well on your way to a much more health full and peace full life.

And finally, I have come to see that meditation is the greatest tool or gift that I have been given in my life because it has taught me to find the deep well of peace that dwells within me and to discover the ground to my Being. It has taught me to be the Master of my mind and thus the Master of my life. It has taught me how to come to know my Self, that is, my Higher Self--my "most significant other."

There is so much more I can say, but I hope this brief introduction to meditation has been helpful.

Blessings and Peace!

Remember: Peace of Mind is a Breath or a Thought or an Image Away

In the next blog post, number XXI, I share with you directions on how best to meditate. In the concluding blog post, number XXII, I post the text of a 5-6 minute abdominal breathing meditation that I have recorded for the June 25, 2009 podcast. EnJoy!

This is Part XX of a twenty-two part blog.

Please go to the following link if you have interest in my award winning book on Meditation and Intuition: http://www.MagicalKeystoSelfMastery.com/

As well, if you have interest in my Meditation CDs, please go to the following link:
http://www.LearnMastery.com/AudioTapesByYanni.htm

June 4, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XIX, Podcast


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May 31, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XIX

This is Part XIX of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

So, again, as I mentioned earlier, meditation is very much like the numerous personal hygiene habits that you already practice such as taking a shower, brushing and flossing your teeth, washing your clothes and keeping your house clean. Meditation is like taking your daily shower or keeping the house of your mind clean. I would not go without doing this.

When you hands are dirty, do you wash them? When your thoughts are junky, do you clean them up? Why not?

Lastly, I would like to address an issue that comes up a lot for people who are beginning to meditate or starting up again. One of the things they often say to me is how can I find any more time in my already jam packed day to do this - it is going to stress me out even more?

Again, as I mentioned earlier there is enough time in the day. There really is! You don't have to sit in meditation for an hour--though if you want to, you certainly can--but you can find time to meditate in the car or when you waiting in line or in those in between times in your day. You just have to remember.

Give yourself a break from all your incessant thinking to calm down and refresh your mind and body. As you build this habit into your life, you will come back to it more and more because it gives you life and energy.

In time, more and more you will learn to respond from a place of a deep conscious full breath, rather than from a place of hyperventilation. You cannot have a negative emotion or thought when you are breathing deeply and fully. Your mind is as clear as it can be when you are breathing fully and deeply.

So, why not live your life clear? Why not live your life with your brain having as much oxygen as possible so that you can make decisions with all of its capacity engaged? As well, you can be physiologically a lot less tense and so much relaxed and balanced.

This is Part XIX of a twenty-two part blog.

Please go to the following link if you have interest in my award winning book on Meditation and Intuition: http://www.MagicalKeystoSelfMastery.com/

As well, if you have interest in my Meditation CDs, please go to the following link:
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May 28, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XVIII, Podcast


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May 24, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XVIII

This is Part XVIII of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

Let me be clear, though. I am not saying don't get angry. Situations arise where anger is appropriate. But what should you do with your anger? Anger is really a trigger for you to take action, which is either to get out of the situation or to express yourself appropriately. But when anger arises it is not good to hold the anger in and do nothing with it because then it burns you up inside and implodes within you or you eventually explode it out there in an inappropriate manner. So you either implode it within you or explode out. Or you deal with it appropriately.

When you feel anger, take ten deep breaths and then decide the appropriate action to take. Don't be angry and act angry. First be aware you are angry, take it as a cue to take action, take ten deep breaths and then act appropriately. Find an appropriate way to express what is important to you or wait for an appropriate time to express it.

Stephen Covey the author of "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" explains that between every stimulus and every response, there is always at least a brief lapse of time. The gift of what you learn with meditation is to increase that amount of time between the stimulus and your response so that you can make a conscious, volitional, intentional, effective, intelligent response rather than a habitual, spur of the moment one that can get you in trouble.

This applies not only to your interactions with another person, but also relative to yourself. Sometimes we get caught up in negative mental patterns either about another person or about ourselves. But if you just notice you are doing this and stop and say to yourself, "Whoa, wait a minute, what good is this doing me?" Then you can literally change your whole physiology, your blood chemistry and, as well, take the most appropriate action. You can stop and take ten deep breaths and then decide what action to take. In this way, you neither internalize nor externalize what you are feeling or thinking in an inappropriate way.

This is Part XVIII of a twenty-two part blog.

Please go to the following link if you have interest in my award winning book on Meditation and Intuition: http://www.MagicalKeystoSelfMastery.com/

As well, if you have interest in my Meditation CDs, please go to the following link:
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May 21, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XVII, Podcast


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May 17, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XVII

This is Part XVII of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

As I come to the conclusion here, I feel that I must mention the following given that there is usually quite a bit of resistance to practicing meditation regularly.

There are times when we sit down to meditate and we find that our mind is in super hyper-overdrive. [By the way, this happens to me, too, and I have practicing for over 40 years.] Even when this happens to you, just stay with it. Don't give up. Just observe the patterns of thought that you are having and do the best you can to simply observe the thoughts and patterns. In doing so, you are at least taking the edge off of them and eventually you will learn how to better and better detach from them completely.

As well, do not resist the thoughts you are having either because "what you resist, persists." What you must do is to allow the thoughts to flow by and away from you. In other words, don't identify with the thoughts and end up getting caught up or enmeshed in them. Just observe them as neutrally as possible. Even if something comes up in your mind that needs to be dealt with, just let it go for now and know that it will come back later when it is the proper time to deal with it. Eighty percent of what we worry about never happens anyhow, so why be in overdrive thinking about "stuff" all the time!

As well, it is worth noting in this regard that a lot of our internal dialogue is self-critical. As you practice meditation, you'll notice that you are constantly dumping on yourself or you are projecting that dumpy dumpster stuff out onto somebody else. It is not doing you any good if you are dumping on yourself or another. Actually it is just dumping catabolic stress hormones into your system. And like the Buddha said, if you hold anger or resentment toward someone else, it is like taking hot coals and holding them in your hand. Why in heaven's name would you want to do that?

This is Part XVII of a twenty-two part blog.

Please go to the following link if you have interest in my award winning book on Meditation and Intuition: http://www.MagicalKeystoSelfMastery.com/

As well, if you have interest in my Meditation CDs, please go to the following link:
http://www.LearnMastery.com/AudioTapesByYanni.htm

May 14, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XVI, Podcast


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May 10, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XVI

This is Part XVI of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

So, what is a healthy, balanced amount of breaths per minute? Eight is. Be assured, though, that you don't have to be a Yogi to attain this or have bells on your toes and rings on your nose. Again, a normal amount of breaths per minute is eight. What most of us usually do is fourteen to fifteen, if not even more.

At eight breaths per minute we are breathing deeply enough to fully use all of our lung capacity and fully oxygenate our bodies. Why we usually breathe in a shallow manner is because we are tense and this tension causes us to not get enough oxygen into our systems.

And, again, the reason we are not getting enough oxygen is because we are only using 40% of the capacity of our lungs. We are only using, at best, the top two thirds of our lungs. By the way, researchers have found that anyone with a cardiovascular problem, no matter what the problem, is a shallow breather.

Interestingly, when these same researchers taught their subjects to breathe deeply, they were able to help them lower their blood pressure and were even able to begin the process of helping them reverse other cardiovascular conditions from getting worse and prevent other conditions from arising at all.

Dean Ornish, MD, has done a lot of research and work in this area. He has a number of best selling books on this topic. His approach regarding cardiovascular issues revolves around teaching his patients how to eat a healthy diet and practice meditation. For him meditation is as important a part of his program as is diet.

This is Part XVI of a twenty-two part blog.

Please go to the following link if you have interest in my award winning book on Meditation and Intuition: http://www.MagicalKeystoSelfMastery.com/

As well, if you have interest in my Meditation CDs, please go to the following link:
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May 7, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XV, Podcast


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May 3, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XV

This is Part XV of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

The value of breathing in deeply and pushing the diaphragm down lies in the fact that this action allows the lungs to fully oxygenate, to fully be used. Because we are so tense most of the time, we don't breathe deeply enough to expand our diaphragm. Actually, our diaphragm barely moves and as a result we are not using the bottom third of our lungs when we breathe.

Well, so what does that mean? It means that we are only getting 40% of the oxygenation we could potentially get. What does that mean? It means brain freeze when there is not enough oxygen going to your brain.

It means that your cells age more rapidly than necessary. For example, your red blood cells are recreated every 120 days. In other words after 120 days all of your red blood cells have died off and have been replaced with new ones. And what do you think is the primary nutrient for red blood cells? It is not food, it is oxygen.

So, every time we breathe in a shallow, tense manner we are depriving our red blood cells of the primary nutrition they need. As a result of this deprivation the next generation of red blood cells we create is less healthy and vital than the first one and so on down the line. So, we are gradually and consistently wearing and tearing ourselves down and diminishing the quality of our cells and therefore our lives because of tense improper breathing and thinking.

Also, it is important to note that the average number of breaths per minute that most people take is somewhere between thirteen to fifteen breaths. This number of breaths is not occurring when you are really hyped out. It actually occurs when you are functioning relatively "normally." What is significant here is that starting at fourteen breaths and up per minute you are clinically in a stress cycle.

This is Part XV of a twenty-two part blog.

Please go to the following link if you have interest in my award winning book on Meditation and Intuition: http://www.MagicalKeystoSelfMastery.com/

As well, if you have interest in my Meditation CDs, please go to the following link:
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April 30, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XIV, Podcast


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April 26, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XIV

This is Part XIV of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

If you want to change, you have to change something. Most people are willing to change their physical diet. But I would urge you to realize that changing one's mental diet is just as important, if not perhaps more important. In order to change, you must change your mind first or you will never change. You will remain the same.

As Henry Ford wrote, "Whether you think you can or whether you think you can't, you are right." So, what you constantly think about manifests in your life. Believe you can change and you will. Believe you can't and you won't. Junky thoughts create a junky life.

One more piece I would to focus on is the value of deep or conscious breathing. I would like to spend a little time now explaining the mechanism of breathing.

We all have lungs. They are pear shaped by virtue of the way they were formed. As well, gravity helps them to be pear shaped or wider at the bottom and thinner at the top. What researchers have found is that during each minute you are breathing, the top third of your lungs process approximately three ounces of blood per minute--in other words, the oxygen/carbon dioxide exchange. The middle third of your lungs process twenty-two ounces of blood per minute and the bottom third of your lungs process thirty-six ounces of blood per minute. Obviously a lot exchange is happening in the bottom third.

Why I am bringing this up is because most people do not breathe deeply and fully enough. They have what are called "frozen" diaphragms. The diaphragm is a muscle that separates the heart cavity from the abdominal cavity. It is concave when it is in a relaxed mode. Thus, when you breathe in, you push down on it and elongate it. That is what creates the Buddha belly or the expansion of your abdomen when you inhale. It is your diaphragm going down and pushing out that causes your belly to expand.

This is Part XIV of a twenty-two part blog.

Please go to the following link if you have interest in my award winning book on Meditation and Intuition: http://www.MagicalKeystoSelfMastery.com/

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April 23, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XIII, Podcast


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April 19, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XIII

This is Part XIII of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

Regarding multi-tasking, if you have deal with multiple issues at the same time, that is fine some of the time. But you don't need to be "doing" all the time. As I mentioned earlier, in this regard Deepak Chopra has said: "We are human 'beings.' We are not human 'doings'."

So, we have to learn to not just be "doing" all the time. When I get burnt out from being on the computer too long, I just go lie on the floor and breathe for five minutes. Then I go back to my computer and I can work again. Five minutes, I feel fine and I am back.

Yeah, I know, I work out of my home. OK. But I also had a job with a corner office in New York on 5th Avenue. But I would still close the door. People knew that when my door was closed, if you came in there, you were in trouble. Come in when the door is open, it is OK. I would close the door for just five minutes. I would either lie on the couch or sit in my chair. By doing this I could clear enough tension with my abdominal breathing to feel refreshed enough to work again.

So maybe you work in a cubicle or parent many children. Whatever? In the car, during a break, whenever, you can find a minute or two to consciously breath. And what is so neat about all this and what will end up happening is that you will remember in the middle of a stressful situation, instead of hyperventilating, to instead breathe. And then you can make a decision about what to do in the situation that is centered and grounded, and therefore, most likely to be constructive.

We can make conscious, intelligent, effective choices. But if we are habitually programmed or simply chose to respond in dysfunctional ways, we will continue responding dysfunctionally.

This is Part XIII of a twenty-two part blog.

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April 16, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XII, Podcast


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April 12, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XII

This is Part XII of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

So, meditation is a way, in a sense, to kind of cleanse your mind, so to speak, as well as your emotions, to clean out a little bit, chill out, come to another place with it all--to let go of some of the junk and tension that is there.

So, do these abdominal breaths for at least three minutes at a time. It only takes three minutes to switch from having catabolic, stress hormones being released into your blood stream to having relaxation or anabolic, healing hormones being released into your system. It really just takes three minutes and in that time you can feel physiologically very different--so much better. Modern science has found that simply by practicing this breathing technique, you can profoundly change the composition of your blood chemistry in your body in just three minutes.

Actually, I recommend five minutes, simply because it takes a minute or so to get into the state initially and you definitely want to come out of it slowly for at least a minute or so. Regardless, this is not a lot of time given the benefits that you gain. There are enough breaks in the day to do this a few times a day.

As I mentioned earlier, I do this on the grocery or the bank line if they are long. I can stand on line and get angry or cranky or I can stand there and just breathe and relax. Just breathe! Just focus on my breathing. Then my mind gets away from thinking, "God this is taking forever!"

Or I can do the breathing while in traffic or during totally boring meetings. Instead of sitting there and getting all uptight, I can just focus on my breath. If you are not thinking about something negative, then your body is not experiencing negativity. A tense mind is what creates a tense body.

This is Part XII of a twenty-two part blog.

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April 9, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XI, Podcast


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April 5, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part XI

This is Part XI of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

So, whenever you are feeling upset or worried, anxious, or overly excited, remember to breathe into your belly. Your abdomen naturally expands and contracts when you are breathing. Just feel your abdomen rise on the inhalation and then on the exhalation feel your abdomen fall. By doing this you can calm yourself down. This is called abdominal breathing.

So, to explain in more detail, breathe in for a count of 4 as your abdomen expands, then hold for a count of 1-2, imagining any tension that is in there being gathered on the hold. Then on the exhalation, the length of the exhalation does not matter, release. Do this while breathing in and out through your nostrils. Do your best to do ten full breaths of this abdominal breathing without losing count--without getting lost in your thoughts.

As I mentioned earlier, you can do this simple exercise in most any setting: while waiting at the chiropractor's, standing in line at the bank or grocery store, during a meeting, you can even do it while driving your car with your eyes open, of course.

So, when you are feeling these emotions, just breathe down into your abdomen.

Life too often brings us situations where we can get upset, overly excited or anxious or worried. But consider this, if your hands are dirty, you would want to wash them. Wouldn't you? So if you are full of tension, isn't that a kind of a mental dirt? Wouldn't you want to wash it off?

We all practice physical hygiene, take showers, brush and floss our teeth, which we do every day; Right? and we wash our hands if they are really dirty. Right? But do we ever think of regularly cleaning off this other "debris." I would say that doing this is as important as our physical hygiene.

This is Part XI of a twenty-two part blog.

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April 2, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part X, Podcast


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March 29, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part X

This is Part X of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

If something stressful happens, the calmer you can remain the wiser and more sensibly you will respond. If you are constantly freaking out, then you are just going to respond in a way that is usually not very appropriate. So, what I am saying here is that most people don't realize that the calmer they are the better they are able to respond to any given situation.

Yes, again there are certain situations where being proactive is good, of course, but if we are always anticipating and always being hyper-vigilant, oh my God, we are always on guard. How can you ever be relaxed? How can you enjoy your life?

Also, it is interesting to note that depending on the kind of stress you are experiencing, the tension gets stored in specific areas of your body. If you are into a lot of worry, anxiety, being very upset and/or overly excited, the tension goes into your abdominal area.

When you are in any of these emotional states what happens is that your adrenals are going crazy and are in overdrive and as a result they are secreting stress hormones. As well, your digestive track is compromised thus you don't eat when you are stressed because there are no digestive juices being secreted. Or you do eat and your food is poorly digested and minimally absorbed. As well, your pancreas is overworked and your blood sugar goes berserk. Do this enough and you end up with diabetes. Also your spleen gets all stressed out which compromises up your immune system. So when we are overly worried and anxious we store a lot of tension in this area and negatively affect a lot of organs.

This is Part X of a twenty-two part blog.

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March 26, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part IX, Podcast


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March 22, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part IX

This is Part IX of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

The mind creates all kind of havoc when it is in overdrive and anything that is in overdrive too long eventually crashes or causes crashes. Run your computer with too many programs all at once and it just freezes up on you. And then you have to do whatever you have to do to get it back up and running again. The same thing applies when you overload your mind with fear, worry, anger, etc, you create a systems breakdown within your body. Modern science is substantiating this.

The mind is not meant to be going or multi-tasking all the time. Believe me, when I started learning about all of this, I thought that what I have just been saying was a pile of poop. It was like, "Right?" I was convinced that I had to always be thinking and anticipating everything. I thought I was a human "doing" and a human "thinking" rather than a human "being" as Deepak Chopra writes.

So, despite my Southern Mediterranean ancestry which I conveniently blame for everything wrong with me--you know, all that over excitability that we kind of get into--but despite my ancestry, my over excitability does not have to be the way I function in life. I can use my ancestry and upbringing as an excuse for my "problems," but my life is really completely in my control if I learn how to "catastrophyze" and "awfulize" less and less.

If you can remember to just take slow, long deep breaths as often as you can and focus on your breath, then your mind will chill out and your body will relax. When you do this, you come back to what is really important. Matter of fact, what is really most important comes to you more easily because you are calmer and, therefore, more aware.

This is Part IX of a twenty-two part blog.

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March 19, 2010

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March 15, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part VIII

This is Part VIII of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

Another way of saying what I am saying is that if you put "junk food" in your body, you know you will end up with a junky body eventually. What most people don't realize is that if you have a lot of junky thoughts, you will, also, have a junky body and, as well, as end up with junky experiences in your life.

Whatever you focus on, you end up experiencing in life. Whatever you are looking at, you see. That is just the way it works. The purpose of explaining all of this is not to turn you into a meditating junkie or a guru or have you go off to the Himalayas, take your clothes off and wander around eating berries. I mean unless that is your idea of a good time. It is not mine, I might add. Eating berries are OK, but I would rather buy them at a grocery store.

What I am suggesting is that when you were a child you knew how to breathe correctly and you knew how to relax. Kids know how to find the "zone." But as time went on, you acquired patterns that taught you that "thinking" or "doing" or "worrying" all the time somehow was good.

Now am I saying here; "Don't think?" No, not at all! Am I saying don't be proactive? No, not at all! What I am saying is that this organ, the mind, is meant to slow down periodically or to go into neutral. Just like your car does. If your mind does not take periodic breaks, you don't sleep well at night. It is, also, why you may feel jittery and can't focus. It is very likely why you overeat. As well, it has many other negative ramifications.

This is Part VIII of a twenty-two part blog.

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March 12, 2010

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March 8, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part VII

This is Part VII of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

But even though what you were worrying about doesn't actually happen to you, you still physiologically have the experience as if you did. You may have been taught if you worry about things, they won't happen or you will better anticipate what to do. But worrying all the time really wears your body down because of all the catabolic hormones you release into your body.

I would suggest that if you proactively come up with a plan for something that you think might happen, let the plan sit and don't worry or think about it again. This way you will not be wearing your body out with stress hormones. When the time comes to act, you will know what to do and you will do what is best for the situation.

But if you "awfulize" all the time, you then send stress hormones throughout your system and catabolize or breaking down your system. So, worrying all the time will eventually trigger whatever genetic weaknesses you may have to come to the surface. If you are not doing all this "awfulizing and catastophyzing", then the genetic predispositions may never surface or may surface in a way that is not significant.

So we don't choose the genetic predispositions we inherit, but we do choose, to a greater degree, which ones are triggered and to which degree they are triggered by our mental and emotional behavior, as well as our diet.

So, it is so important to understand that meditation is an integral and essential component in attaining wellness. It is as important as diet and exercise in terms of physiological well-being. Most people don't associate meditation with being physiologically well. But the connection is essential.

This is Part VII of a twenty-two part blog.

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March 5, 2010

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March 1, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part VI

This is Part VI of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

Before we get to the meditation exercise, I would like to share the following regarding the physiological value of meditation. There are studies showing that just mediation by itself can actually help to not only prevent heart disease but to actually reverse it. It has been found that by meditating regularly plaque can actually be sloughed off of the arteries. This can occur because when you meditate you release hormones into your body that heal and repair--that is, anabolic hormones. When you are having stressful, negative thoughts your body does not release these hormones. It releases, instead, catabolic hormones that tear down your body.

Your body is always striving to maintain and attain homeostasis or balance. If you stop creating tension, you give it a chance to find this balance and healing.

When a rhinoceros is charging, you need to run or fight, in other words, the fight or flight response. And so, when under stress, you release hormones that give you the energy to run like the dickens or fight to the death, but in the process you are tearing your body down from the inside-out.

Also, it is interesting to note that modern science has discovered that whatever we imagine, we experience physiologically. So, if you just imagine something negative, your body responds physiologically as if it is having the negative experience. So that is why worry is totally useless and detrimental to do because 80% or 90% of what worry about does not even happen.

This is Part VI of a twenty-two part blog.

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February 26, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part V Podcast


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February 22, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part V

This is Part V of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

As well, please note that you can do the breathing meditation/exercise that I will share with you later on with your eyes wide open, while you are standing in line at the bank or a grocery store, while attending a boring meeting, etc., in any setting where you don't need to be putting your complete attention on anything in particular. You don't have to sit for hours in meditation to get its benefits.

You can even do this while driving your car with your eyes open, of course. No, I'm not crazy! You can do this while driving. I always do it. As I drive to teach a class or to any destination, for that matter, instead of thinking about the hundreds of things that I may need to do, I choose instead to just BE, to be present and conscious with myself, with my body and with my breath. This way I am more relaxed while I am driving and as a result of being more relaxed, I am much more alert.

So, instead of incessantly thinking, I give myself a break from all that "thinking" and "doing" and just consciously breathe all the way to my destination. As well, I do this as often as I can in as many other settings as possible.

Again with regard to driving, you really are much more alert when you are relaxed. Accidents occur when you are distracted and usually you are distracted because you are overly caught up in some emotional or mental drama in your mind. By doing this technique, you will actually be much, much more alert and relaxed while driving and you also will be much more relaxed when you reach your destination. You will respond more effectively to any stimulus that occurs while you are driving and you will be aware of a lot more of what is going on than you would be if your mind were overly cluttered and distracted by too many thoughts.

This is Part V of a twenty-two part blog.

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February 19, 2010

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February 15, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part IV

This is Part IV of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

So, meditation can help you to learn how to slow your mind down enough so that you can consciously and proactively choose what you think about and how you feel. Yes, there are stressors or "buttons" that will get pushed, and will cause you to "loose it;" that's called "life." But one can still choose how one reacts, no matter what is happening or has happened. You can choose to "loose" it completely or just step back and be objective with regard to what is going on.

So, the key here is to learn how to bring forth the relaxation response more and more often during your day instead staying stuck in a constant state of overdrive, of over-thinking. In other words how can you minimize being hyper during the day? How can you minimize the fight or flight response?

You can minimize it by creating many little mini-breaks during your day to help calm yourself down. All you need is three minutes at a time. I will outline a breathing exercise shortly that will change your blood chemistry from one that is overloaded with stress hormones to one that is full of healing relaxation hormones. All you need is three minutes. And in those three minutes you will have affected a profound physiological change in your body and you will feel quite different.

The whole point of teaching you this breathing meditation is to help you to remember to take regular breaks from your incessant "thinking" and "doing" so that you can give your mind a respite and your body a breather, physiologically.

This is Part IV of a twenty-two part blog.

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February 12, 2010

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February 8, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part III

This is Part III of a twenty-two part mini-course in Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

Our bodies were not built to live under the mental stresses of this age nor were they meant to be sedentary. Now, I am not suggesting that you go into a cave, eat wild berries, roam the forests and meditate for the rest of your life, and forget all of your responsibilities.

But what we can do is to learn how to lessen the intensity of the over-stimulation that we experience. Our bodies are not capable of handling this over-stimulation for long periods of time without significantly breaking down, be it physiologically or emotionally.

So, what meditation does, and it has been around for many millennia, is to help you to slow down and to feel physiologically and emotionally better and more balanced. This is the incredible gift that meditation freely offers anyone willing to experiment with it.

What we do not realize is that our minds do not think on their own; we choose what we think about. It may seem at times that we don't choose our thoughts and that we don't choose our emotional reactions and that our minds and emotions have a "mind of their own." But, in fact, you can learn to choose what you think about and you can learn to choose how you feel.

You can choose to "awfulize" or you can choose to see the best in yourself and your situation.

There can be a big difference in how you experience an event. It depends on whether you see the cup half-empty or half-full. How you choose to perceive an event determines how you physiologically and emotionally experience it.

This is Part III of a twenty-two part blog.

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February 5, 2010

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February 1, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part II

This is Part II of a twenty-two part mini-course on Meditation in which I discuss the benefits of Meditation, how to best do it and use it and then lead you in a guided meditation at the end. In order to get the most out of these blogs and podcasts, it would be best for you to go back and start with the first blog entry on January 25, 2009.

Negative or intense thoughts release stress hormones and relaxing, happy thoughts release relaxation hormones. The hormones have more complicated names than that, but so be it in this kind of a presentation.

So, as your mind slows and calms down, so does your body. And not only does your body slow and calm down so that it is not as tense, but, as an added benefit, the relaxation hormones you are now releasing are "anabolic," that is, they actually build up or heal your body.

In contrast, when you secrete stress hormones, you create a "catabolic" effect; that is, an effect that breaks down your body. So when you are stressed you are creating an environment within yourself physiologically that is literally breaking you down (catabolism). That is why there are a lot of stress related illnesses. Some experts believe that nearly 80% of all doctor visits are stress related.

So, therefore, in order to be as fit physiologically as you can, it really is important to learn how to master your mind. You need to learn how to allow your mind to go into a neutral state more often than it does now. [By the way, there is nothing wrong with multi-tasking. It is a very useful function. But the problem occurs when you are multi-tasking all or most of the time.] Our human bodies have been around a very long time and there really is only about a 1.0% difference between the makeup of a Neanderthal's body and ours.

So, we were created to function optimally by being, as our ancestors were, physically active. As well, we are not made to be as mentally over-stimulated as we are with all the data and information and "doing" and "thinking" we engage in in this modern technological age.

This is Part II of a twenty-two part blog.

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January 29, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part I Podcast


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January 25, 2010

Meditation--A Way to Become Physically, Mentally and Metaphysically Fit, Part I

Starting today and continuing through the next twenty-two weeks of blogs and podcasts, I will be offering a course on Meditation. The first twenty one posts will be a discussion about Meditation, its benefits and how to best use it and do it. In the last post I will lead you in a guided meditation.

Most people discount meditation when they speak of getting fit. They usually think of fitness solely in terms of doing exercise and eating a proper diet. From my point of view it is not only physical fitness that we want to aim towards, but there is also a mental and psychological or even a metaphysical fitness that I personally believe is primary in attaining well rounded health and wellness.

What meditation really helps one learn how to do is to slow down and quiet the mind. Of course, you might well ask, "What good does that do?" Actually slowing the mind down is a very valuable skill to learn because every thought and feeling that we have gets expressed in every cell in our body.

This happens because every thought and feeling we have creates synaptic exchanges in our brain which then creates a hormonal response. So, a hormone of some kind, either a stress or relaxation one, is released as result of the kinds of thoughts and feelings we have. These hormones, courtesy of our cardiovascular system, are then pumped throughout our whole body and bathe all our cells. So that when you are angry about something, the cells in your big toe are bathed in an anger hormone and you now have an angry big toe, so to speak.

So, too, with being uptight or anxious, when you are uptight or anxious it is not just something that is going on in your mind, it is something that also is happening in you physiologically--in your body. So the kinds of thoughts and feelings you have determine whether a stress or a relaxation hormone is released into your bloodstream and that then determines what your body is experiencing.

This is Part I of a twenty-two part blog.

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January 22, 2010

The Keys to Awakening and Ascension Podcast, Part II


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January 18, 2010

The Keys to Awakening and Ascension, Part II

This is Part II of a two Part blog. Go to my blog entry of 01/11/10 for Part I.

How can you live your life not knowing who you ARE?

It is the most important question you can ask yourself. It is the most important quest you can embark on in your life. And it is precisely why you have incarnated this time.

Your purpose in coming forth in this dimension at this time is to come to truly, finally and completely "Know Thy Self." To finally without a scintilla of a doubt know who you ARE so that you can embody and experience that "knowing" throughout the rest of your eternity.

In other words you have come forth this time to totally "get" this lesson and to then move on to greater and greater experiences and realizations of the Love of God/Goddess.

For each one of you the process of getting the answer to the question of "Who AM I?" will be different. So, there is no one way to find the answer nor is there the same answer for every one.

But as you ask the question, you begin to eliminate who you are not and then eventually you come to know who you are.

You will know that you are there, that is, that you have found the answer, when you have stopped asking the question. For there is no answer to the question of ´"Who AM I." Actually, there is not even the question. There is just the profound experience of your Self as God/Goddess.

And when that "knowing" comes over you, you know you "know" who you are and why you are, but it no longer matters!

For now you have found your Self and all your questions have now turned into answers.

So, what was once a big "WHY" no longer matters. And the big "WHY" has now turned into a big "Y" that stands for and sees it all as one big "YES!"

So, seek ye first your Self and all will be added!

NB Please do think about what you have just read, just "feel" it; don't think it and you then will "know" if it resonates with you.

This is Part II of a two part blog.

January 15, 2010

The Keys to Awakening and Ascension, Part I, Podcast


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January 11, 2010

The Keys to Awakening and Ascension, Part I

Actually, becoming awakened is very simple. Just learn how to "be present" with your Self and this will allow you to be "awakened" to who you really are. As well, it will help you to know all you need to know about your current life circumstances and about others.

But what does "being present" with your Self really mean? It means just sitting and listening to your self. Listening initially to the dissonance of fear, anger and confusion that by default keeps running in your mind; and then letting all that static fade away so that finally, in the Silence, you get to hear your real Self.

And there, in the presence of your Self, you know you "know" and then you are finally, truly, and irrevocably free from all the limiting beliefs that block you from knowing and "being" who you ARE.

It is in this place and space of communion, connection and Embrace that you will find the answer to the most important question you could ever ask of yourself: "Who AM I?" And the answer that you find will be one that will help you to realize and take ownership of the fact that you are loved, whole, and free and that you have eternal value!

For this precisely is what awakening really is--knowing who you really ARE in all your magnificence and splendor! "Being present" with your Self is the key that will help you to open the doors to the mystery and majesty of who you really are.

This will allow you to enter the Kingdom of Heaven, Nirvana, Valhalla, the place that is your true domicile, your real home--a place of profound love, truth, and wisdom.

So, just sit with your Self for awhile each day this week and ask that you can come to "Know Thy Self!" Ask sincerely and "be present" to listen; and believe me, all the forces of Heaven will come to your side to assist you.

Doing this is a marvelous opportunity to be present with your "most significant other"--your Self!

How can you live your life not knowing who you ARE?

This is Part I of a two part blog. Part II will be posted on 01/18/10

January 8, 2010

Suffering Teaches Us How to Become Masters of Love, Podcast Part VI


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January 4, 2010

Suffering Teaches Us How to Become Masters of Love, Part VI

This is Part VI of a six part blog. In order to understand and make best use of what follows, please see my previous entries of 11/30/09 for Part I, of 12/07/09 for Part II, of 12/14/09 for Part III, of 12/21/09 for Part IV and of 12/28/00 for Part V.

Love is the only gold.
Tennyson

Below are a series of affirmations or phrases I have created and use to help me to stay in a place of unconditional Love:

Be assured that if you follow anyone other than your Self, you will surely get lost.

Take the time to really "listen" to your Self and all will become crystal clear.

God/Goddess loves you no matter what because in doing so, He/She loves Him/Herself.

Don't take your life's experiences personally, these experiences are not who you ARE! They are just steps on your path to Awakening! You ARE so much more!

Hang in there! You CAN do it! And actually you ARE doing it!

Trust the process and most importantly Trust your Self!

Fear is the ultimate illusion. Empowerment the ultimate Truth!

It's all a series of conclusions about a series of delusions.

When you appreciate something, you allow yourself to fully receive it!

Rather than "making the best of it," "make it the best!"

Love is being unconditionally present for yourself and another!

Make your Life a Meditation, not a Race; Proceed at the Speed of Grace and Trust.

In conclusion I would like to share a channeled passage from Kryon:

There seems to be so much sorrow on the planet. Can you work within the framework of the test before you? Can you put on your armor and shields of sacredness and walk through the sorrow, fear and disappointment of what other Humans have done, without judgment of them or without being discouraged? The more light you carry, the more you will see that which is sorrowful on Earth. Only the masters can "see" these things as reasonable within the scheme of why you're here. It is important that the Lighthouses are not distracted by the storms as they shine their lights. Otherwise, they become useless.

So, it is so, so important to not let your ego determine the perspective you have on the experiences you or others are having.

Please remember to go into meditation regularly and quiet your mind and open your heart so that you might allow the wisdom, love and light of your Higher Self to illuminate and reveal the path before you!

May you dwell Peace!

The gift that suffering bestows upon us is that it teaches us how to become Masters of Love!


This is Part VI of a six part blog entry.

January 1, 2010

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December 28, 2009

Suffering Teaches Us How to Become Masters of Love, Part V

This is Part V of a six part blog. In order to understand and make best use of what follows, please see my previous entries of 11/30/09 for Part I, of 12/07/09 for Part II, of 12/14/09 for Part III and of 12/21/09 for Part IV.

Love is the only gold.
Tennyson

So, when you can unconditionally accept everything and everyone, you have learned the ultimate lesson of what Love is all about. It is in this state of acceptance that the illusions of lack, insufficiency, fear, and inadequacy all disappear and the reality of your beauty, majesty, wisdom, power and eternal value become very clear and bright.

All that you previously interpreted with your ego's eyes as failure and "suffering" is now seen as just steps leadings you out of the illusion of your separateness and aloneness and instead into the realms of Oneness, Light and Love that your Higher Self or Soul dwells in eternally.

Even the Awakened One, the Buddha, said:

It is hard to be born a human being,
and hard to live the life of one.
It is even harder to hear of the path;
and harder still to awake, to rise and to follow.

But once all this "suffering" is seen as the illusion that it really is, then the true Light of who you really are finally awakens within you and then you can own, know, integrate and embody it in a way that it becomes you and you become IT.

So, let go of your ego's desire to have things always go your way, i.e. the way you "think" they should--that is, the way your ego mind wants them to go. Let your Soul instead be in the driver's seat.

Let go of the need to hold onto things that are already as you desire so they will continue to be what you want. Believe me, they never will remain the same. The only constant in this universe is "change."

Let go of trying to control others, you never will!

Let go of your fears, projections, illusions and defenses.

Let go of the need to make others wrong or right or to judge them.

Just dwell in the Light of your Soul by sitting in meditation and all will be revealed to you! "Be still and know!" Listen to the "still, small voice within!" It will lead you to your true Self.

This is part V of a six Part blog entry.

December 25, 2009

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December 21, 2009

Suffering Teaches Us How to Become Masters of Love, Part IV

This is Part VI of a six part blog. In order to understand and make best use of what follows, please see my previous entries of 11/30/09 for Part I, of 12/07/09 for Part II and of 12/14/09 for Part III.

Love is the only gold.
Tennyson

Love is not an emotion; it is a state of being. It is a state of acceptance and profound understanding. It sees all experiences with the heart of unconditionality and it knows that all is in Divine Order and that all is moving towards the Highest Good.

Love from the ego has emotions attached. Love from the soul, does not. That's what it's all about: learning how to develop the "detached," "impersonal," and "open" heart. The heart and mind that are free from the fears, illusions and false beliefs that distort reality.

Many equate the word love with the human emotion that many mistake as and for love. Unconditional Love is a state of being and not an emotion. It is a stable, harmonious and balanced state through which there can be no judgment, no fear, no indecision, and no uncertainty. It is a pure state of acceptance, trust and knowing. It is a Soul state, not a mind state.

Come out of the circle of time into the circle of love.
Rumi

This state of love is not a denial of reality, but rather an acceptance and true appreciation of it! It is an understanding that all of life is an eternal journey into a greater and greater ability to love, appreciate and embrace more and more of one's experiences and more and more of the Universe!

This is part IV of a six Part blog entry.

December 18, 2009

Suffering Teaches Us How to Become Masters of Love, Podcast Part III


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December 14, 2009

Suffering Teaches Us How to Become Masters of Love, Part III

This is Part III of a six part blog. In order to understand and make best use of what follows, please see my previous entries of 11/30/09 for Part I and of 12/07/09 for Part II.

Love is the only gold.
Tennyson

Our purpose here on this planet is not to acquire information and "things," but to learn how to really love. And so when we are at our lowest and yet are still able to reach up to love, reach within to love and reach out for love, we then truly will have mastered what Love is all about. For by reaching out for love, we shed light into the darkness. We turn chaos into order. We transform lead into gold. We truly tap into the essence of love and become the Master Alchemist! We turn all our "suffering" or our illusions into Gold!

If in the depths of despair you seek Love's guidance and surrender fully to its loving embrace, then truly you have learned what it means to have "Love" and that "knowing" will remain with you and continue to grow within you throughout eternity.

Love gives eternity and meaning to life--nothing else can or does. But if, on the other hand, you just make love an intellectual exercise, you learn nothing about love and are left empty and unfulfilled.

So, when your body is not functioning well, but you can still love it, you then have learned what it means to love unconditionally.

When your best friend or lover has left you and yet you can still love yourself, you have learned how to truly love yourself.

When you finances have bottomed out, but you can still appreciate the wonder and beauty of life and of yourself and still know that you are good and can thrive, you have learned what it means to love.

And when another has harmed you and you can still love them and yourself, truly you have learned what love is.

This is part III of a six Part blog.

December 11, 2009

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December 7, 2009

Suffering Teaches Us How to Become Masters of Love, Part II

This is Part II of a six part blog. In order to understand and make best use of what follows, please see my previous entry of 11/30/09 for Part I.

I am not afraid of storms,
for I am learning how to sail my ship.
Louisa May Alcott

We create our reality. Everything that "happens to us" is part of a master plan or blueprint that is helping us to "become," grow and heal in ways that will truly allow us to develop and manifest all the potential within us. Truly, all is in Divine Order and Divine Timing and as we learn to look at our experiences through the eyes and heart of our Soul and not through the myopic vision of our ego, we get to see the bigger picture and put it all into proper context and perspective.

It is our Soul that is leading us into the experiences that It knows will help us to truly come to know who we really are in the quickest and, believe it or not, the least painful way possible. Whether we presently get it or not, what looks, to our ego, like a long and torturous path, is really the shortest route to a true understanding and picture of who we really are.

Seeing our experiences through our Soul's perspective will lead us away from where our limited awareness is presently focused to an unlimited, eternal and infinite vision of who we really are and will put into perspective why we are experiencing what we are experiencing.

So, it is those who have experienced the greatest sense of loss and suffering in their lives who have risen to the greatest heights and depths of wisdom and love.

What is to give light must endure burning.
Victor Frankl

This is Part II of a six part blog entry.

December 4, 2009

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November 30, 2009

Suffering Teaches Us How to Become Masters of Love, Part I

This is Part I of a six part blog,

In the depth of winter,
I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer.
Albert Camus

The gift that suffering provides us is that it teaches us how to become Masters of Love! But how you might ask?

That which we call "suffering" is an experience we create for ourselves so that we can refine or increase our ability to love ourselves, love another and love the whole of the creation. When we "suffer" we ultimately feel abandoned and alone. As well, we feel that we are unworthy and unlovable. But all of this is just the ultimate illusion, an illusion that has us believing that we are somehow separate from God/Goddess and somehow undeserving of His/Her love.

We are meant to have dominion over or be the stewards or nurturers of all of creation. But that dominion or stewardship is not one of "possession," but it is a stewardship of love. It is the dominion of one who is the caretaker and caregiver. It is not a "hording of things," but it is a stewardship of nurturing and caring for all. And the way that we earn that dominion is to be more and more able to love, appreciate, nurture and embrace it all, no matter what.

But how does one learn to "love/appreciate" it all, no matter what.

Most of us believe that suffering is something that is inflicted upon us by an outside force. Whether it is illness, financial ruin, relationship issues, natural disasters, etc., we see ourselves as a "victim" of circumstances.

The problem with this way of looking at the experiences you are having is that by seeing yourself as a "victim," you are giving away your ownership of the situation and are therefore, giving away your "power" to change it.

This is Part I of a six part blog.

November 27, 2009

How to Reprogram Your Self-Image, Podcast Part VIII


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November 23, 2009

How to Reprogram Your Self-Image, Part VIII

If you want to change; you must make a change inside yourself.
You can't just wish or think that things will change.
You must take internal action!
All change is an inside job!

This is Part VIII of an eight part blog. In order to understand and make best use of what follows, please go back and read Parts I, II, III, IV, V, VI & VII on 10/5/ /12/ /19/ /26/ and 11/2/ /09/ and /16/ 2009 respectively.

Some More Phrases to Read, Feel and Visualize, con't:

XIX
I am free.
I am whole.
I am one.
I am free to receive and give.
I am good.
I am worthy.
I release my limiting memories, fears, and feelings; I bless them for what they have taught me.
I am truly blessed.

So, work or "play" with these phrases. Certainly make up more of your own. As you do this you will be tilling the soil of your soul and planting and nurturing the "seeds of greatness" that are within you.

As Meister Eckhart wrote:

The seed of God is in us.
Given an intelligent and hard-working farmer,
it will thrive and grow up to God, whose seed it is;
and accordingly its fruits will be God-nature.
Pear seeds grow into pear trees,
nut seeds into nut trees,
and God-seeds into God.

We are so much more than we "think" we are. In other words we are so much more than what our limited programming allows us to believe we are. We are "gods and goddesses in training" as Deepak Chopra has written.

Or as I am wont to say: "We are chips off the old holographic block called God/Goddess who have come forth to embody the Divine in finite three dimensional form." We are truly made in His/Her Image.

This is Part VIII of an eight part blog.

November 20, 2009

How to Reprogram Your Self-Image, Podcast Part VII


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November 16, 2009

How to Reprogram Your Self-Image, Part VII

If you want to change; you must make a change inside yourself.
You can't just wish or think that things will change.
You must take internal action!
All change is an inside job!

This is Part VII of an eight part blog. In order to understand and make best use of what follows, please go back and read Parts I, II, III, IV, V & VI on 10/5/ /12/ /19/ /26/ and 11/2/ and /09/ 2009 respectively.

Some More Phrases to Read, Feel and Visualize, con't:

XV
I am amidst a beautiful spiritual family.
Doors will open easily and quickly for me.
I am who I AM in this current of time.
God/Goddess is pleased with me.
I am truly worthy of a fulfilling, loving, lasting relationship that is perfect for me.

XVI
I ignore the Here
I ignore the Present.
I pretend There.
I fantasize my Dreams.
I pretend what I intend.
I Relax, Enjoy, Pretend, Trust, and Believe.
I always, without ceasing, intentionally and consciously INTEND any and every moment of my life. I never forget and always remember--ever being mindful of what my priorities and passions are.

XVII
I want it!
I will figure it out!
It's easy!
The universe is on my side.
The universe is a friendly place.

XVIII
This ______ is who I am, what I do, what I was born to be and do. [Fill in the blank.]
I struggle because I still haven't come to terms with it.
As I do, a calming will come.
I am a channel for understanding and wisdom. When I get this, my fears will cease.

This is Part VII of an eight part Blog.

November 13, 2009

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November 9, 2009

How to Reprogram Your Self-Image, Part VI

If you want to change; you must make a change inside yourself.
You can't just wish or think that things will change.
You must take internal action!
All change is an inside job!

This is Part VI of an eight part blog. In order to understand and make best use of what follows, please go back and read Parts I, II, III, IV & V on 10/5/ /12/ /19/ /26/ and 11/2/09 respectively.

Some More Phrases to Read, Feel and Visualize, con't:

XI
Nothing serious can or will be allowed to happen to me.
I feel the anger and fears and pain, but I joyfully live my life anyway. All this can do is to slow me down at worst, but it can never stop me.
I am safe and will succeed without pain.
Failure is impossible--even if I try to fail.
I can not fail; it will not be allowed.

XII
I am gentle with myself.
I am a beautiful precious child of God/Goddess.
God/Goddess would let nothing happen to me.
I am eternally, lovingly held in the Embrace.

XII
I can feel fearful, a failure, and unworthy, but it has no bearing on reality.
With regard to money, I always affirm: "In God I trust."
Whenever I am concerned about money or whenever I am receiving it, I see three times as much.

XIV
SHINE
It takes work to hide.
I confront, embrace and conquer my fears and shine brightly in the world.
I claim the piece of the Grand Puzzle that I AM.
I ease into my life--the true current--and surrender into it.

This is Part VI of an eight part Blog.

November 6, 2009

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November 2, 2009

How to Reprogram Your Self-Image, Part V

If you want to change; you must make a change inside yourself.
You can't just wish or think that things will change.
You must take internal action!
All change is an inside job!

This is Part V of an eight part blog. In order to understand and make best use of what follows, please go back and read Parts I, II, III & IV on 10/5/ /12/ /19/ /26/ 2009 respectively.

Some More Phrases to Read, Feel and Visualize, con't:

VII
I listen to my inner voice.
I respectfully and in a detached manner demand of the Universe what I want.
I am very clear about what I want.
I clearly and confidently claim and affirm my love-ability and worthiness.
I notice the negative judgments, but just treat them like another opinion that I don't have to give any power to.

VII
I AM SAFE
I am safe to live my truth.
I am safe to be a powerful spiritual person.
I am safe to have people honor and respect me.
I am safe to expand and go to more and more places.
I am safe to find others to help me in my work.
I receive love, blessing, support and praise.

IX
I can tell and reassure my body that I am healthy now.
My body is my friend, it is just letting me know what is happening and if a healing is necessary.
I pay attention to my body like it was a baby.

X
I can tell and reassure my mind that I am psychologically healthy and grounded.
The very fearful and angry emotions can continue to happen, but they are for my amusement only.
Life will go on and on and I will succeed at finding personal and professional mastery.


This is Part V of an eight part Blog.

October 30, 2009

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October 26, 2009

How to Reprogram Your Self-Image, Part IV

If you want to change; you must make a change inside yourself.
You can't just wish or think that things will change.
You must take internal action!
All change is an inside job!

This is Part IV of an eight part blog. In order to understand and make best use of what follows, please go back and read Parts I, II & III on 10/5 /12/ /19/ 2009 respectively.

Some More Phrases to Read, Feel and Visualize, con't:

IV
The trick is that I know the agenda; and the agenda is:
Steadily, step by step, I will connect with larger and larger numbers of people.
I will steadily and increasingly uncover my gifts and they will be appreciated and sought after by many.
I will enjoy what I do and it will all flow effortlessly.

V
I externally put myself out there persistently.
Inwardly, I gently hammer away with positive self-talk, affirmations and visualizations in order to change the negative programs inside.
I am truly ready.
I am truly worthy.
I truly can handle it.
I am truly good enough.
I feel an inner grace, peace, and strength.
I am truly worthy of praise.
I am truly worthy of love.
I am truly worthy of attention.
I am truly worthy of _________. [Fill in the blank.]

VI
I clearly call in what I want, not as a request but as a demand because I know I am worthy.
I want ________ income for my work.
I want to look forward to and always enjoy my work.
I want to feel good about myself.
I want to feel free to express my creativity and to be praised by others for expressing it.
I am ready
I can handle it; no problem.
I want it NOW.

This is Part IV of an eight part Blog.

October 23, 2009

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October 19, 2009

How to Reprogram Your Self-Image, Part III

If you want to change; you must make a change inside yourself.
You can't just wish or think that things will change.
You must take internal action!
All change is an inside job!

This is Part III of an eight part blog. In order to understand and make best use of what follows, please go back and read Parts I & II on 10/5/09 and 10/12/09 respectively.

Some Phrases to Read, Feel and Visualize:

I.
I invest in Faith, Hope and Love, but not in worry or fear.
I face my fears and embrace them.
It is my beliefs and interpretations of events that are the problem.
All is in Divine Timing and Order.
I see the wisdom of the situation(s) I am in.
I see my life through the eyes and Heart of my Soul.
I am Loved!

II Believe and Say:
I truly want this_________.
I truly deserve this_________________. [Fill in the blanks.]
It's truly in alignment with my Soul's purpose.
I am worthy and deserving of good!

[You get to fill in the blanks here. It can be something internal or external. Go for it!]
[See my blog posts of 09 /07 /14/ 21/ 28/ 2009 for suggestions on what to put in the blanks.]

III
I believe that I deserve only good and that all things come to me on a silver platter.
I am used to being praised, honored, and wanted.
Others see the treasure in me; they do not see the childhood distortion that I incorrectly "think" I am.
I am totally convinced of my value.

There is only Light and Goodness-Anticipate it!!!

This is Part III of an eight part Blog. See my blog entries of 10/5/09 and 10/12/09 for Parts I & II.

October 16, 2009

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October 12, 2009

How to Reprogram Your Self-Image, Part II

If you want to change; you must make a change inside yourself.
You can't just wish or think that things will change.
You must take internal action!
All change is an inside job!

This is Part II of an eight part blog. See my blog entry of 10/5/09 for Part I in order to get the full context of what is in today's blog post.

So, what follows is a series of phrases that you can repeat over and over again. Some may appeal to you more than others, so go with those that jump out at you first. Repeat them with feeling and visualization as often as you can remember in a day.

Work with each set of phrases for at least twenty-one days or until you feel you've "got it." Some phrases may take a lot longer than twenty-one days to really sink in, so don't try to rush any of this.

Work with up to three sets of phrases at a time, but not more. And keep doing it and keep doing it. At any point, please feel free to add any phrases you come up with on your own or modify any of the ones I have suggested.

Really get into this and "own" the process. By doing so, you will ensure your success. Trust that in time you will significantly have changed your internal terrain and your self-image so much that you will no longer recognize your (old) self.

In practicing this process you are becoming a master gardener of your mind. You are weeding out what no longer serves you and are feeding and nurturing yourself with what really does. Have fun!

Remember, you get to write the script of your life! You get to be the author or author-ity in your life. It doesn't matter what old, dysfunctional programs you presently have running in your subconscious mind, this process will act like an anti-virus software and clear out of you all malicious, unwanted, stale, dysfunctional programs.

This is Part II of an eight part Blog.

October 9, 2009

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October 5, 2009

How to Reprogram Your Self-Image, Part I

If you want to change; you must make a change inside yourself.
You can't just wish or think that things will change.
You must take internal action!
All change is an inside job!

This is Part I of an eight part blog.

I thought that I would share with you in my next series of blog entries further ideas and techniques that I have gathered and used over the years on how to change my internal terrain.

All change is an inside job! So, in order to change we must change how we feel and think about ourselves. But usually most of us are not in touch with what our own internal dialogue is nor are we aware of what our internal self-image is. In other words, most of us are not in touch with how we see ourselves nor are we in touch with how we think and feel about ourselves.

Often, our estimation of ourselves is a lot less generous and accurate than what others see about us. Often we are our own worst enemy and our own worst critic. How we see ourselves, whether it is a conscious process or not, greatly determines how others see us and it also determines what we attract into our lives.

So changing all this is of paramount importance if we want to change how we experience life. What follows are a series of internal dialogue exercises or affirmations that I have used over the years to reprogram my self-image.

Please read through them slowly. They are meant to be savored and not swallowed. They are meant to be repeated over and over again not only as words, but also they are meant to be "felt" and "seen," that is visualized.

Please go to my blog entry of 08/31/09 for an envisioning exercise that will help you learn how to really "see" and "feel" these phrases. The actual phrases will follow in Part III of this blog on 10/19/09. My next blog, Part II, on 10/12/09 will give more information on how to use these phrases.

This is Part I of an eight part blog.

September 4, 2009

The Power of Visualization: Peace of Mind is an Image Away, Podcast, Part VI


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August 31, 2009

The Power of Visualization: Peace of Mind is an Image Away, Part VI

Worry creates more worry: Joy creates more Joy! You get to choose!

This is Part VI of a six part blog.

What follows is a simple, yet highly effective visualization technique that can help you to imagine and manifest all the good you ever wanted in your life. Since you are imagining or visualizing all the time, anyhow, why not do it consciously and intentionally. Why not create what you want?


Envisioning in Order to Achieve a Desired Outcome/Goal

I. Decide what outcome you want to work on, e.g., to meditate regularly; to laugh a lot; to be true to oneself in all circumstances; to not experience stress in specific situations; to lose weight; to effortlessly create abundance; to improve your health; to feel self-esteem and confidence in specific situations; to get a raise, to get a new job, a new house, etc.

II. Get very specific about what you want, e.g., I want to meditate once a day for ten minutes; I want to listen to my Higher Self in all situations and at all times; I want to weigh 100 pounds and be a size four; I want to be relaxed and feel confident every time I meet new people, etc.

III. Get quiet. Take three deep breaths into your abdomen. Now start relaxing your body. Begin with relaxing the top of your head and slowly and gradually relax your forehead, eyelids, cheek, jaw, chin, neck, throat, shoulders, arms, hands, fingers, chest, back, abdomen, pelvis, thighs, knees, calves, ankles and feet. Breath deeply into any area that feels especially tense.

IV. Know that now that you are in this relaxed state you are able to access your subconscious mind and your super-conscious mind and that anything that you visualize clearly and think positively about will definitely come to pass. So, see yourself succeeding: truly believe and expect yourself to achieve your ideal manifestation. Envision as many scenes as you can with you being successful at achieving your goal. Really feel it! Really praise yourself! Use your imagination to bring other people into the scene. Hear them tell you how excited they are about how healthy, successful, and good you look, etc. See it and really Feel it! Really feel how good it would be to already have accomplished your desire. Feel as if you have already accomplished it. This is how you can create new manifestations in your life and use your imagination to bring the desired results you want into your life.

V. Worry creates more worry: Joy creates more Joy! You get to choose!

VI. Thank yourself for taking the time to consciously create your life.

VII. Bring yourself slowly out of this relaxed state.

VIII. Do this as often as you can; at least once a day.

This is Part VI of a six part blog.

If you would like to know more about the power of visualization, please check out my Meditation CD: Peace of Mind is an Image Away: Visualization Meditations.

You can hear a sampler at: http://www.learnmastery.com/AudioTapesByYanni.htm

August 28, 2009

The Power of Visualization: Peace of Mind is an Image Away, Podcast, Part V


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August 24, 2009

The Power of Visualization: Peace of Mind is an Image Away, Part V

Worry creates more worry: Joy creates more Joy! You get to choose!

This is Part V of a six part blog.

In order to help you get a better grasp on the role and power of visualization, I thought the following two quotes would be quite helpful:

"Although research in this field is still in its infancy, we have already found that visualization has a definite effect on the body's EEG, or electrical field. Physiologist Edmund Jacobson has shown, for example, that if you imagine yourself running, small but measurable amounts of contraction actually take place in the muscle you use for jogging." [This certainly happens when we dream.]

"Anatomists have demonstrated that there are pathways between the part of the brain where our pictures are stored and the autonomic nervous system which controls such so-called "involuntary" activities as sweating, blood pressure, and digestion. These same pathways link the autonomic nervous system and the pituitary and adrenal cortex. The end result is that a picture in the mind has an impact on every cell in our bodies."

These two quotes come from a book entitled: Visualization, by Adelaide Bry.

So, what we imagine, we experience viscerally in our bodies. Our imagination has a very, very powerful effect on our bodies.

As well, what we imagine, we experience as real psychologically. And by doing so we then we attract more of what we are imagining or visualizing into our life experiences. So, we really can't afford the luxury of a negative imagination! It gets us into a lot of trouble!

Please see my next blog entry for a simple, yet highly effective visualization technique that can help you to imagine and manifest all the good you ever wanted in your life.

This is Part V of a six part blog.

August 21, 2009

The Power of Visualization: Peace of Mind is an Image Away, Podcast, Part IV


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August 17, 2009

The Power of Visualization: Peace of Mind is an Image Away, Part IV

Worry creates more worry: Joy creates more Joy! You get to choose!

This is Part IV of a six part blog.

Why not be relaxed in dealing with events rather than be totally stressed out in dealing with them?

Am I saying don't be proactive and anticipate things? No, not at all! What I am suggesting is that you "see" and expect the best of all possible outcomes and then you will be in a better place to respond wisely and effectively to what does in fact happen.

So, why would you want to be stressed out all the time? Worrying can not and will not bring you the results you are looking for. It will only make you feel lousy and create unnecessary and unhealthy tension in your body. As well, it will attract more worry.

As you begin to slow down and meditate on a regular basis you will notice the incessant, fearful, worrisome, angry, confused, disoriented thinking and imaginings that you have constantly playing around in your mind; but by observing all of this you can then learn how to instead shift away from all this static and noise into more positive thoughts and imaginings.

So, what I am suggesting here is that you can learn how to avoid your landmines of negative thinking and imaginings, and by doing so you will feel better and be physically and psychologically so much happier and so much more at peace. As well, you will attract more good into your life.

Peace of mind is an image away. You can learn to see/imagine the best in everyone and everything, including yourself! You can learn to not only make "the best of it." You can learn to make your life the best!

So, give your self some time now to imagine the best! It will transform your life.

This is Part IV of a six part blog.

August 14, 2009

The Power of Visualization: Peace of Mind is an Image Away, Podcast, Part III


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August 10, 2009

The Power of Visualization: Peace of Mind is an Image Away, Part III

Worry creates more worry: Joy creates more Joy! You get to choose!

This is Part III of a six part blog.

Negative imaginings create enormous tension in your body. Because what you imagine, you experience as real in every cell in your body. And so learning to consciously visualize the most positive outcome and to see the best in yourself, in others and in any situation you are in is one of the greatest gifts you can give to yourself because this is what is really going to help you to relax and be at peace.

If you were to stop and observe your imaginings you would begin to realize how often they are caught up in "seeing" the worst. You will see how often you "awfulize" and "catastrophize" a situation. You will notice how often you worry.

You can change this and then change how you feel physiologically and emotionally and also change what you experience practically in your life. You can choose to experience peace, happiness, joy and fulfillment every moment by what you choose to focus on and how you choose to interpret events.

We create an enormous amount of stress on ourselves physiologically and emotionally when we worry. Eighty to ninety percent of what we worry about does not happen. So, why worry, so much? Why create so much tension in our bodies and minds?

This is Part III of a six part blog.

August 7, 2009

The Power of Visualization: Peace of Mind is an Image Away, Podcast, Part II


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August 3, 2009

The Power of Visualization: Peace of Mind is an Image Away, Part II

Worry creates more worry: Joy creates more Joy! You get to choose!

This is Part II of a six part blog.

Why it is so important to learn how to positively visualize is because what you imagine, you experience physiologically, emotionally and practically in your life. Science has discovered that when you visualize something, your mind and body respond to your imaginings as if they are real.

So perceived threats and or positive fantasies are both experienced as real by your body whether you are conscious of the effect they are having on you or not. Therefore, it is so important to consciously choose what you imagine, to choose what you "space out" on, to choose what you place your mental attention upon.

You have a choice as to whether you are engaging in happy imaginings or not. Being happy or at peace is a choice you make each moment by the thoughts you choose, the images you envision or the feelings you allow yourself to experience.

It is not about what is happening around you or "to" you. It is about the choices you make each moment. It's about how you choose to "see" things; about how you choose to interpret them and what meaning you give to them.

Peace of Mind is an image away or a thought away.

This is Part II of a six part blog.

July 31, 2009

The Power of Visualization: Peace of Mind is an Image Away, Podcast, Part I


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July 27, 2009

The Power of Visualization: Peace of Mind is an Image Away, Part I

Worry creates more worry: Joy creates more Joy! You get to choose!

This is Part I of a six part blog.

Some of you may be thinking as you start to read this: "I'm not so sure that I can visualize very well." But if I were to ask you what your bedroom looks like, your living room, or a loved one, I am sure that you can easily bring a picture to mind as to what they look like. And by doing so, you have successfully visualized. This is all that visualization really is; we all have the inherent ability to visualize, the ability to imagine.

My goal in these series of blog entries is to teach you or remind you again how important it is to know how to consciously visualize or "space out." It is actually a gift for an adult to know how to "space out." Of course, I do not mean all the time, but at least some of the time. Actually we all "space out." We are constantly, whether we realize it or not, visualizing or imagining or spacing out on something.

So, I would like to teach you how to consciously and positively visualize or imagine; and, also, I would like to teach you why doing it regularly and consciously is so important.

Again, we all visualize all the time. But mostly we "awfulize" or "catastrophize" - in other words we imagine the worst. We worry and worry is just negative imagining or anticipating the worst. And by doing so, we create that which we worry about and draw into our lives that which we do not want.

This is Part I of a six part blog.

July 10, 2009

Create a New Vision/Vibration for Your Self, Part IV Podcast


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July 6, 2009

Create a New Vision/Vibration for Yourself! Part IV

The reason most people achieve very little in comparison to what they are capable of is because they have no vision for themselves or their future, whatsoever. They feel that they are at the whim of others or at the whim of some outside force like of the Lords of Karma. But they definitely are not!

You are the captain of your ship! You are the Master of your fate!

So, create the Vision, i.e., the Vibration, and the Universe will match it. It already is doing this, whether it is happening for you consciously and volitionally or whether it is happening by default!

So, what is your dominant Vision or self-image? Release your old, worn, stagnant, crystalized, and mutated visions and Embrace the New You!

You are made in His/Her Image! Learn to reflect your Divinity, your True Image!

"Without a vision, the people will perish." "Without a vision, you will perish."

So, take the time to both write down a general vision for yourself over the next five years and then go into meditation and get a picture and a feeling of how you would look and feel when you have already achieved all that you have written down; and then come back to that image and feeling whenever you think about your life.

You are the artist who is now creating your own self-portrait. You are the author who is writing the script of your life.

Take the time to create the most beautiful and satisfying portrait and script that you can imagine. Then keep refining and defining it. And then hold that image of yourself in the foreground of your awareness all the time. This is what creation is all about.

Peace and Joy be with you! It is your birthright.

June 29, 2009

Create a New Vision/Vibration for Yourself! Part III

So, you must first honestly and lovingly "Face" yourself (i.e., your thoughts and feelings) and then "Embrace" them (accept what you find) and then you can begin to gradually "Replace" them with a clear vision of who you really are and what you really want to create in your life and with your life.

Every time you have a thought or a feeling you are creating or drawing to your self something new from the universe and bringing it into your reality. You do not have to base your expectations for the future upon your past experiences, your perceived weaknesses, or anything else that reinforces your present, limited self-image. You no longer need to use your past as your frame of reference for your future, unless, of course, your past is filled with good.

By creating a clear vision of your desired state and putting energy (i.e. focus) into it regularly, you are using your mind (i.e. vibrational) power to shape the very stuff or essence of the universe into what you want.

So, to summarize, you hold this "imagined reality" in your mind to the point where your subconscious actually believes it to be so real that it goes about making it manifest in your life. Once you have this clear image in your mind, your subconscious will then attract the circumstances, people, and opportunities you need to bring about the vision you have "imagined."

Or, on the other hand, if you are not connected to a clear positive image, and are in a negative default mode of thinking and feeling, you will then attract the nightmare you dread!

This is Part III of a four part blog.

June 26, 2009

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June 22, 2009

Create a New Vision/Vibration for Yourself! Part II

So, one very important thing to do is to have a crystal clear vision of your life as you want it to be; one that is completely independent of the conditions of your present or your past.

Lack of absolute clarity about your desired future is the number one reason why people struggle in life.

That is why it is so, so important to take the time to get in touch with what you actually feel and think about your life and yourself. If you find some of it to be critical and uncomplimentary, then begin to change it.

The best way I know of to do this is to simply sit in meditation and listen to the predominant thoughts and feelings that arise. By the way, you can't just sit one time to get the full picture, but if you sit consistently with yourself, within just a few weeks, you will get a pretty clear picture of what your predominant thoughts and feelings are. Then because of this awareness, or "mindfulness" as the Buddhists call it, you will now be more conscious of what you are vibrating and, therefore, more able to change it.

After you have taken the time to really see your patterns, it then becomes easier for you to create a clear vision about your future and a practical plan for success.

But until you have taken the time to look within, you literally are in the "dark" about yourself. And in the dark it is very difficult to see or create a vision for your self. You really do need to shed light on the darkness within in order to create something new without.

This is Part II of a four part blog.

June 19, 2009

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June 15, 2009

Create a New Vision/Vibration for Yourself! Part I

The essence of all things and experiences is vibration. All our thoughts, feelings and actions have their own particular rates of vibration. These vibrations set up a resonance with whatever has a similar or identical frequency.

This is why it is so, so essential to be a very close observer of your thoughts and feelings. The way you think, feel and act creates the primary vibration of your being, i.e., your "energy signature." This fundamental "energy signature" then creates resonance with similar vibrational frequencies in the universe wherever they may be. The result is an attraction of experiences, people, challenges and opportunities that are in vibrational resonance with your own dominant frequency.

The fundamental law of "like attracts like" is immutable and eternal. Therefore, your dominant positive patterns of thought and action or your dominant negative enmeshments, entanglements, and projections are what you are living.

Thus, to draw what you want into your life, you begin by being very aware of your thoughts and feelings, i.e., your vibration. And then you make a practice of raising your vibration to match the desire or experience you want, no matter what. Most people do things the other way around. They come up with practical techniques to generate their desires and then go out and try to force them into manifestation.

However, when what you are seeking is not really in agreement deep down inside you with your dominant vibration, then you will have great difficulty making the desired result come to pass. In other words, if you want to have more money in your life, but you feel deep down inside unworthy, undereducated and unskilled, you will never attract more money into your life because you inherently do not believe it is possible for you.

This is Part I of a four part blog.

May 29, 2009

"Know Thy Self" by Learning How to "Listen" to Your Self, Part IV Podcast


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May 25, 2009

"Know Thy Self" by Learning How to "Listen" to Your Self, Part IV


This is part IV of a four part blog. Please see my last three blog entries on October 30, November 1 & 6 for parts I, II, & III.

It is in meditation where you can connect with the essence of your object of attention. It is in meditation where you can eavesdrop on your Self and on the God/Goddess within. It is in meditation where you can come to truly "Know ThySelf." Why not learn how to experience this sweet ambrosia of the gods? Why not learn how to experience your "Godness?"

As Yogananda wrote:

Meditation or consciousness focused upon itself is the ultimate revealer of who you really are, and what you truly are. You can discover an inner guidance within yourself, and that inner guidance will guide you to the destination you need to go. You have already been guided to many things which are opening you to be aware, but the greatest tool for self knowledge is Meditation.

Also, as Ramana Maharshi wrote:

Look! This little finger covers the eye and prevents the whole world from being seen. In this same way this small mind covers the whole universe and prevents Reality from being seen.

Lastly, this lovely sentence from "The Cloud of Unknowing" an anonymous medieval spiritual classic, sums it all up so beautifully:

By Love God may be gotten and holden, but by thought never.

So, learning how to still the mind through meditation helps one to learn how to truly listen to one Self and to another. It is in meditation that we access the essence and the heart of the matter, instead of getting all caught up in our heads and in the illusory surface appearance of things.

It is in meditation that we "see things clearly" and come to "know" ourselves and another. It is in this Silence where we can truly be present and Listen!

To learn more about meditation, please check out my Meditation CDs posted on my blog.

Also, to learn a lot more about Listening and Meditation please feel get a hold of my book: Magical Keys to Self-Mastery: Creating Miracles in Your Life.

http://www.MagicalKeystoSelfMastery.com

This is part IV of a four part blog.

May 22, 2009

"Know Thy Self" by Learning How to "Listen" to Your Self, Part III


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May 18, 2009

"Know Thy Self" by Learning How to "Listen" to Your Self, Part III

This is part III of a four part blog.

In order to learn how to Listen as I have described in my two previous blog entries, one must learn to quiet the mind through meditation. Meditation is the key to learning how to listen to your Self and to another.

The best passage that I have come upon to help one to understand what the state of meditation is and how it allows one to truly be able to Listen was written by Krishnamurti. In describing meditation he wrote:

Thought comes to an end. Then there is that sense of absolute silence in the brain. All the movement of thought has ended. It has ended, but it can be brought into activity when there is necessity in the physical world. Now, it is quiet. It is silent. And where there is silence, there must be space, immense space because there is no [little] self. The self has its own limited space; it creates its own limited space. But when the self is not, which means the activity of thought is not; then there is vast silence in the brain because it is now free of all its conditioning.

And it is only where there is space and silence that something new can be that is untouched by time or thought. That may be the most holy, the most sacred--may be. You cannot give it a name. It is perhaps the unnamable. And when there is that, then there is intelligence and compassion, and love. So life is not fragmented. It is a whole, unitary process, moving and living."
It is in this state of being that Krisnamurti describes above where one can be present and listening. It is a profound state of unity with one's object of attention; and it is a profound state of the heart. It bypasses the mind and all its myopic judgments.

This is why I have for years taught and promoted the sacred art of meditation. When you learn how to meditate you can truly focus on someone and truly listen because you are totally present. You are not in your head, but you are in your heart. You are sensing things from the inside out rather than just skimming the surface by thinking about them.

This is part III of a four part blog.

May 15, 2009

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May 11, 2009

"Know Thy Self" by Learning How to "Listen" to Your Self, Part II

This is part II of a four part blog. Please see my last blog entry on October 30 for part I.

There are seven kinds or aspects to "Listening:"
1) "Listening" to another."
2) "Listening" to nature.
3) "Listening" to Spirit.
4) "Listening" to your physical body.
5) "Listening" to that part of us called the little self or the ego? That part that we often do not want to own or acknowledge, that we often wish to disinherit, despite the fact that it is has some very valuable things to say to us.
6) "Listening" to our Higher Selves.
7) "Listening" to the God/Goddess within.

All these aspects of Listening require the same skill, namely learning how to be quiet. Listening actually is not a cognitive process, it is not something we do with our minds; but something we allow or open up to with our hearts.

Listening is a receptive, open, allowing, feminine state; it is not an assertive, active, masculine state. When the mind is quiet, the heart can be open; and then it can "hear;" and then, as well, it can lead the way. The mind is meant to be the servant of the heart. The heart is meant to lead.

Don't analyze anyone or anything. When you do, you are using your mind and creating separation by judging, analyzing and compartmentalizing. Instead feel first.

Don't listen to words, instead feel their energy.

Don't judge a person; get a "feel: for them first.

Don't measure anything; just "feel" its energy.

Use your heart first and then let the mind help you integrate what the heart has felt. Feel first, think last! Then you will "know."

Stop thinking and start feeling! Leave your mind behind and put your heart first!

No longer think your way through life; feel your way through life.

Listening is a communion--a joining or merging with. It is not analysis or judgment.

This is part II of a four part blog.

May 8, 2009

"Know Thy Self" by Learning How to "Listen" to Your Self, Part I Podcast


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May 4, 2009

"Know Thy Self" by Learning How to "Listen" to Your Self, Part I

This is part I of a four part blog.

Remember! When you are quiet, you can eavesdrop on God and on your Self!

In order to come to "Know Thy Self," one first must learn how to "Listen." For it is only by really knowing how to "Listen" that one can get "a handle one's 'Self.'" And it is only through "Listening" that we can be true to our Selves and live an empowered, passionate, fulfilled, joyful life.

Usually all we hear or listen to is the noise and static that our fearful, angry, worried ego mind produces; this noise effectively blocks out our ability to hear what is really important, what is at the core of who we are.

It is only by learning how to embrace the Silence, that we can hear anything important. It is only by being quiet that you can "hear" your Self, "hear" another, "hear" nature, "hear" Spirit, and "hear" the God/Goddess within. One must quiet the fretful ego mind in order to hear one Self and come to "know" one Self.

Silence is the language of God. Everything else is bad translation.
Thomas Keating

Silence is ancient. Silence has been in the space you are this very moment
for longer than anything else. It will remain after you leave
and exist long after all other things have faded.

Anonymous

This is part I of a four part blog.

April 10, 2009

"Living From The Inside Out" Flash Movie Podcast

I thought that I would do something different this week and instead of doing a blog and podcast that I would direct you to a flash movie that I created entitled: Living From The Inside Out.

I feel that it best embodies what my work is all about.

Please go to the following link to view the movie:

http://www.insideoutjourneys.com/movie.cfm

If you can't click onto this link, please copy and paste it into your browser.

It's only 3 minutes long.

Many Blessings!

Yanni

The only real confidence is not self-confidence,
that is, confidence in your ego's delusions of superiority and importance.
True SELF-confidence is having the courage to listen to the "still, small voice within"
and then to act on its inspirations and promptings.



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April 6, 2009

"Living From The Inside Out" Flash Movie

I thought that I would do somethng different this week and instead of doing a blog and podcast that I would direct you to a the flash movie that I created entitled: Living From The Inside Out.

I feel that it best embodies what my work is all about.

Please go to the following link to view the movie:

http://www.insideoutjourneys.com/movie.cfm

If you can't click onto this link, please copy and paste it into your browser.

It's only 3 minutes long.

Many Blessings!

Yanni

The only real confidence is not self-confidence,
that is, confidence in your ego's delusions of superiority and importance.
True SELF-confidence is having the courage to listen to the "still, small voice within"
and then to act on its inspirations and promptings.

April 3, 2009

The Sacred, Ancient Art of Blessing, Part IV


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March 30, 2009

The Sacred, Ancient Art of Blessing, Part IV

This is part IV of a four part blog. Please see my last blog entry on March 23 for part III.

When you see someone who is ill, bless him/her and see them in their wholeness and perfect health, for even in their suffering, this wholeness is in their potential and waiting to be recovered.

When your eyes behold a person who is suffering from the vicissitudes of life, seemingly broken by life, bless him/her and see them vital, abundant and joyful: for what on the surface looks broken is really glorious and perfect when one looks within and sees with the eyes and heart of the Soul.

When you pass a homeless person, bless them for their goodness and see them smiling, whole and surrounded by the eternal, unconditional love of God the Parent and filled to overflowing with love, wellbeing and abundance.

Whenever you see a prostitute or pimp, be they those of the physical body or those who slander and defame another with their ideologies and falsehoods, bless them, too, for their goodness, for "they know not what they do" and are, as we all are, "leaning out for love and will lean that way forever." Offer the hand of blessing to them and, therefore, allow them to come to their senses again. Help them to see the wholeness which is at their essence and at the essence of all.

And please remember that it is impossible to bless and to be judgmental at the same time. So continually have as a deep, holy thought the desire to bless, for truly then shall you become a peacemaker, and then one day you shall behold the very countenance and heart of God wherever you look.

This is part IV of a four part blog. Please see my previous three blog entries on March 9, 16, and 23 for parts I, II & III.

March 27, 2009

The Sacred, Ancient Art of Blessing, Podcast Part III


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March 23, 2009

The Sacred, Ancient Art of Blessing, Part III

This is part III of a four part blog. Please see my last blog entry on March 16 for part II.

As well, when something goes wrong in your day and some unexpected event ruins your plans, you, too, can remember to burst into a blessing. For life is teaching you a lesson, and the very event you wish had not occurred, you yourself asked for in order to learn the lesson you wanted to learn. Challenges are blessings in disguise, and only good follows in their path. As you learn to embrace and bless it all; it reveals its gold to you.

Also, to bless is to recognize the universal beauty and goodness which is ever present for those who can "see"; it activates the law of attraction which brings into your life exactly what you need to experience and enjoy.

By blessing another, you are acknowledging the good within them. You are seeing them with the eyes and heart of God/Goddess. You are seeing their essential nature and not just their surface.

So, when you see a person in shackles, whether they are physical shackles or mental ones, bless them for their unawareness and wish them their freedom, kindness, and forgiveness and a pardon from their ignorance; for one can only be imprisoned by one's image of oneself. For we alone create the iron bars that imprison us when we harden our hearts and stop trusting in and seeing the goodness or "god"ness in each other and in all of our experiences. It is only he/she who is free of judgments who can bless another and see the light in themselves and in others.

This is part III of a four part blog. Please see my next blog entry on March 30 for part IV.

March 20, 2009

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March 16, 2009

The Sacred, Ancient Art of Blessing, Part II

This is part II of a four part blog. Please see my last blog entry on March 9 for part I.
To bless means to wish, unconditional, complete, unlimited goodness for another from the depths of your heart and soul: it means to sanctify, to revere, and to see with pure wonder that which is a gift from God. The individual who is graced by your blessing is made whole and free and so are you as you release all judgments.

To bless is to bring into play the Divine upon another and to confer happiness and peace upon them. Though we are not the source of the blessing, by any means, we can be the willing instrument of God's Grace, Blessing and Love for them. And, of course, this then is a great blessing for us, too.

To bless everyone, no matter who they are or what they have done, without discrimination of any sort is the ultimate form of giving and service, because those who you bless will never know from what source suddenly and unexpectedly came a ray of hope that burst through the clouds of their negativity but they still will be eternally grateful for your generosity.

You can have a very profound effect on someone simply by the act of blessing them. And the ramifications of this blessing can and will exponentially grow as this wave of goodness that you initiate goes way beyond the intended receiver. Your simple thought of kindness can unleash a wave of goodness, blessing and peace that will cover the entire world.

This is part II of a four part blog. Please see my next blog entry on March 23 for part III.

March 13, 2009

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March 9, 2009

The Sacred, Ancient Art of Blessing, Part I

This is part I of a four part blog.

The ancient art of blessing is such a wonderful way to add sacredness and peace to your life. It is a great way to ground and stabilize your energies throughout the day. It is a magnificent way to grace your day and the day of another person with light, love and peace.

So, when you awaken, begin by blessing your day, for it is so full of goodness. Blessing your day affirms all the good that is everywhere present in the very fabric of all of life and which patiently waits for you to notice.

When you see people in the street, at work, on the TV or in their cars, bless them. Your blessing will silently and magically bring them peace and stay with them all day like a cool summer breeze, like a beacon on their path.

When talking to people, bless them regarding their dreams and aspirations, their health, their finances, their work, their family, and themselves. Bless them in every imaginable way, for such blessings not only grace the one you are blessing, but also bring grace, joy and peace to you.

Bless the nation in which you live, its government and infrastructure, its polity, its teachers, its children, its policeman, its firemen, its bankers, its priests, its doctors and healers and everyone that is a part of the community, whether they are young or old, rich or poor, firm or infirm.

Also, whenever anyone expresses the least amount of negativity or unkindness towards you, respond with a blessing: bless them fully, honestly, happily, for such blessing protects them from their ignorance, and allows you to step aside from the negative energy that was aimed at you.

This is part I of a four part blog. Please see my next blog entry on March 16 for part II.

March 6, 2009

Slow Down! Get There Fast! Part II


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March 2, 2009

Slow Down! Get There Fast! Part II

This is Part II of a two-part blog. See my entry of February 23 for Part I.

It was because my wife and I chose to "Slow Down! Get there Fast!" that we gradually began to realize that living in New York City with all the noise and frenetic activity was not a match for who we were.

As well, working in two high profile and high pressure professions was also not who we were and what we wanted to do with our lives. Even though we first thought that these jobs were our ticket to heaven; they really were quite the opposite!

So, after living in NYC for only three years; it became obvious to us that we had to leave. So, we made plans and in two years we were out of the City, no longer in those jobs and living in a lot slower paced and less urbanized environment. We moved to a setting that was so much more a match to who we were and not who we thought we should be.

As well, by slowing down, we began to get more and more of our real priorities straight. We took care of ourselves and explored all kinds of enriching avenues of personal growth. We deepened our meditation and other spiritual practices. As well, we started the study and practice of Chi Gung, a Chinese form of meditation and energy mastery.

This all lead me to have the courage to make my passion, which is teaching and writing about the spiritual and healing arts, become my vocation and my work. So, within just two years we moved out of the Big Apple and I began my healing and teaching practice.

Starting anything new always has it challenges and opportunities. So, there were many times when I doubted myself and my abilities. But every time I did, I remembered that if I would just "slow down" I could tune into that "still, small voice within" and there I would find my center and find my Self again and all would be clear. I would remember in this place of Silence who I was and why I came forth.

I would see where I stood on my climb up my mountain of mastery, redouble my courage and confidence and continue on, clearly knowing that I was now "getting there fast!" That is, I was getting there in Divine Timing and in Divine Order and All was truly Good!

So, "Slow Down! Get There Fast!" It works wonders!

This is part II of a two part blog. See my previous blog entry of February 23 for Part I.

February 27, 2009

Slow Down! Get There Fast! Part I


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February 23, 2009

Slow Down! Get There Fast! Part I

My wife, Jaime, and I were living in New York City some twenty years ago. We were both working in very high pressure jobs in Manhattan. I was in book publishing and she was in insurance.

As well, we had a two hour commute back and forth to work every day. So, by the time we got home we were exhausted from all the stimulation. There was always something to "do" and it always had to be done fast! So, life was a series of unending tasks that seemed to just exponentially explode on us. It wasn't fun to say the least.

So, one day while we were taking stock of all we had to do, my wife, in total frustration, screamed out: "Slow Down! Get There Fast!"

It made us both stop in our tracks and first, laugh, but most importantly, it helped us to realize that we were like hamsters spinning around on a treadmill in a cage. We were going nowhere fast!

So, we asked, "Why are we doing this?" And we realized that we were unconscious. We were just doing more and more just for the sake of doing more and more in the hope that it would make us feel better about ourselves. But it certainly wasn't helping!

So, at that point we recognized that we had to incorporate a conscious, consistent spiritual practice into our lives; that is, we needed to create a time of slowing down. We had been doing numerous spiritual practices for years on a haphazard basis, but it wasn't enough obviously.

So, we then decided to sit and meditate and/or pray for at least thirty minutes an evening. It was so refreshing and relaxing. And most importantly, it helped us reach our goal of feeling good about ourselves very quickly; and we no longer had to run around mindlessly exhausting ourselves to reach our goal!

By slowing down, we got to our goal of feeling good about ourselves very, very fast. The other way of going about it, by running around all over the place, was actually moving us further and further away from our goal.

So, no matter what your goal is: "Slow Down! Get there Fast!" It works wonders!

In my next blog entry of March 2, I will continue this theme and explain how this process of slowing down helped me to find my purpose in life and live my passion.

February 20, 2009

"Think on These Things," Prayer


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February 16, 2009

"Think on These Things," Prayer

"...whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. Those things, which ye have both learned, and received, and heard, and seen in me, do: and then the God of peace shall be with you."
(Philippians 4: 8-9)

Prayer
Be joyful always,
Pray continuously,
Give thanks in all circumstances.

1 Thessalonians 5, 16-18

In terms of increasing the quality of my life, I have found that prayer is such an incredibly valuable and precious tool.

When I refer to prayer I do not mean the repetition of rote phrases that no longer have any meaning. Prayer for me is seeing the good in all people, events and circumstances in my life and blessing and appreciating it all.

As you "think" or pray in this way, you are shining light on everything. And it is in this light and because of this light that the hidden beauty and brilliance of whatever you are focusing on is fully revealed.

As well, as you pray, you will continue to see your light grow stronger and stronger. And this light and this strength will be the attracting point and signal that you put out to others and to the universe. And as a result, you will attract even more light and strength to yourself. And in time all the darkness within you will be transformed into the light it always was. In this way you become the beacon on the hill, the lighthouse in the storm.

As you practice this you will be awed by all the good you will find within and without!

Quality is not inherent in an object or a person; it is created one prayer at a time; one kind word at a time; one noble action at a time; one positive thought at a time.

The great Masters still shine so brightly because they knew to constantly strengthen and brighten this flame within themselves with the fuel of prayer, love, service and good thoughts! And because of this, they no longer cast shadows any more! For they had become the Light!

Prayer is not an asking for, it is a becoming.
Yanni Maniates

Think or Meditate on These Things!

January 16, 2009

Putting your Self First-- Being True to Your Self


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January 12, 2009

Putting your Self First--Being True to Your Self: A Meditation

How can you be "true to yourself?" How can you live your life authentically connected to who you really are and not to who you think you should be?

The key is listening. That is, listening to your authentic Self or your Soul and following her promptings. This means that you must slow down enough to quiet your ego mind and view your self and the situation at hand from the perspective of your Soul.

Your ego will always "awfulize" and "catastrophize" everything. It makes everything a life and death situation when in fact there is no death, there is only life! It notices or fixates on irrelevant details and ignores the bigger picture.

Progress up your life's mountain of Mastery is not a linear progression. Progress in your life is a series of pieces of a puzzle that you experience over time which eventually helps you to see the bigger picture.

But it is only your Soul that can help you see your experiences from this broader perspective. And if you ignore or don't even know that there is such a perspective through which to interpret and understand yourself and the experiences you are having, you are lost.

So, I often find myself asking the question: "What does my Soul or Higher Self think of this situation? How does my Soul feel and see it all?" These are the questions I want to always be asking and this is the way in which I want to learn how to see and interpret everything in my life. I know that by doing it this way, everything is softer, easier and clearer. And it allows me to be more relaxed and at peace.

So, take the time to learn how to "see" again. Take the time to breathe, quiet your mind and pause before you act or react from your ego's perspective.

Learn how to put your Self or your Soul first and leave your ego behind. Always, always, breathe, pause and ask: "How does my Soul see this?" And then trust what you receive! Then you will be putting your Self first!

January 9, 2009

Who Do You Think You Are? A Meditation


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January 5, 2009

Who Do You Think You Are? A Meditation

In the Katha Upanishad, the sages of ancient India describe
the source of the limitless potential within us in the following manner:

There shines not the sun, neither the moon nor star,
nor flash of lightening, nor fire lit on earth as bright.
The Self is the light reflected by all.
He shining, everything shines after him.

And as the Sufi mystics write:

He whom the galaxies can not contain, he is in my little heart.

It is so hard for the ego mind to wrap itself around who you really ARE. The ego mind is only capable of remembering the conditioning which it has been fed since birth. It knows nothing about the Divine plan that you formulated before it came into being. It has no clue regarding your infinite potential; and it certainly has no idea about the incredible mysteries and majesty that lie within you.

So, why do we keep relying on the ego mind to help us get to know ourselves or to understand what our purpose is? The ego mind is meant at best to be a servant of our soul. It is not meant to be our master.

So, let us learn how to access this clear, pure essence by learning to quiet our ego mind and listen to our heart/soul. Then we will discover who we ARE.

Meditation is the key to this way of perceiving.

Whatever arises is not Self.
It is not I;
it does not belong to anybody;
it is just conditioning.

Jack Kornfield

January 2, 2009

The Mind is a Lot Less Important than We Think It is: a Meditation


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December 26, 2008

The "Embrace," Part II


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December 22, 2008

The "Embrace," Part II

This week I am sharing with those of you who read my blog, why I do the work that I do. Please go back to my post on December 15 for Part I.

Within each one of us lies a limitless well of living waters brimming with wisdom, love, inspiration, creativity and strength. We just need to find the key that opens us to these treasures.

This key lies in learning how to quiet the mind and open the heart (i.e. meditate) in order that we might learn how to experience and process life through the heart-mind and no longer through the myopic vision of the ego mind.

Herein one will find a profound place of freedom and joy from which one can truly "live life." Herein one becomes the author/authority of his/her life and learns what it means to truly be a Master of her/his thoughts, emotions and life experiences.

Herein one truly learns to be "true to thy Self." As well, one comes to understand that if you have not yet learned to "know thy Self" that life will feel and be incomplete.

So, I wish that my work can be a road map to that divine, blessed place of peace and the "Embrace" that lies within each and every person, a place that all those who truly aspire to Mastery have found, a place where there is a peace and a love that "passeth all understanding."

It is here that the initiates of the Ancient Mysteries Schools endeavored to arrive. In my work, I intend for the "mysteries" of this process to be removed and so, too, the "ancient" trappings! We are living in a time when the ancient keys to the Kingdom are, in fact, fully accessible to every modern man and woman who desires to access them. The Divine Feminine has returned!

The subject tonight is Love
and for tomorrow night as well.
As a matter of fact,
I know no better topic
for us to discuss
until we all die!

Hafiz

All a sane man
can ever think about
is giving love.

Hafiz,
Sufi Mystic and Poet

December 19, 2008

The "Embrace," Part I


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December 15, 2008

The "Embrace," Part I

The subject tonight is Love
and for tomorrow night as well.
As a matter of fact,
I know no better topic
for us to discuss
until we all die!

Hafiz

All a sane man
can ever think about
is giving love.

Hafiz,
Sufi Mystic and Poet

I would like to take the opportunity now to share with those of you who read my blog, why I do the work that I do.

I would like to introduce you to what I refer to as the "Embrace" and how it is at the core of all that I do and be.

It is through the "Embrace" that "all things are made anew." As well, it is through the "Embrace" that we all are made whole and healed. And it is through the "Embrace" that we can listen and learn from each other.

What follows is a brief story that may put this is a broader context for you:

Some twenty years ago I was participating in a series Intuitive Development classes. During the classes we would meditate and quiet our minds and go into a very profound place of peace where we would access a deep, deep connection with extraordinarily loving energies.

I had been participating in these classes for about a year and had really enjoyed the warmth and camaraderie that had formed among all the class members. As well, I had very much enjoyed the peace that the experience of the classes brought. So, too, the class facilitator, Philip Burley, was a truly excellent channel and the messages that came through him were very profound and healing.

Then one night as I was "tuning in," an overpowering sense of peace and pure Love just cascaded all over and through me. I had never felt this before and it just kept growing and growing and getting deeper and deeper, wider and wider, fuller and fuller. Truly for the first time in my life I knew what it meant to have "my cup runneth over."

It was there and then that I "knew" that I had found "it." I had found both my connection with Source/God and had also found my vocation or calling in life. I "knew" that my life had been leading me to this moment so that that I could really "get" what was important and then help others experience that same "Embrace."

So, on that day it became clear to me that my raison d'etre (reason for being) was/is to continue to deepen that connection with the "Embrace" for myself, and, in whatever way possible to help others to find "It" for themselves, as well.

So, all my work up to now is dedicated to this purpose.

See my blog post on 12/22 for part II.

December 12, 2008

STRENGTH


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December 5, 2008

All Change is an "Inside Job"


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December 1, 2008

All Change is an "Inside Job"

Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.
Tolstoy

In order to change anything in your life, you must first make a change within your self. Every change is an "inside job." Change is not about controlling or changing another person or situation in your outer life so that it suits you better. It is about changing you, internally.

So, for example, if you want to experience peace in your life, you must first seek to create peace within yourself no matter what. The level of peace you experience in your external life is solely dependent on the level of peace you feel within. Then as you attain this internal peace, you achieve a peace that the world can not take away from you.

You, thus, have achieved a peace that is rock solid and deep. Then you know what it means to stand on solid ground.

So, whatever you wish to change or achieve, you must first go within, honestly evaluate your thoughts, beliefs, fears, etc. about the issue, release the ones that do not serve you and then embrace the ones that do. Then things will really change for you.

It can and likely will be a challenge to be so honest with yourself, but it is the only way to really effect significant change in your life.

Try it with anything you would like to change in your life. It really works.

Meditation is the primary tool I use to access this level of myself. It is the best way I know of to get in touch with my underlying beliefs and thoughts. And it is the most effective method with which to create the changes I want in my life.

If you are distressed by anything external,
the pain is not due to the thing itself,
but to your estimate of it; and this you
have the power to revoke at any moment.

Marcus Aurelius

November 28, 2008

Dedication, Discipline and Intentionality; the Keys to the "Good Life," Part II


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November 24, 2008

Dedication, Discipline and Intentionality; the Keys to the "Good Life," Part II

This is a continuation of my last posting on November 17.

The ancient Masters were profound and subtle. Their wisdom was unfathomable.
There is no way to describe it; all we can describe is their appearance:
They were as careful as someone crossing an ice-covered stream.
Alert as a warrior in enemy territory.
Courteous as a guest.
Fluid as melting ice.
Shapeable as a block of wood.
Receptive as a valley.
Clear as a glass of water.

Lao Tzu

Intentionality and dedication is the Master's prayer and gift to him/herself. With clear intentions, one can manifest one's dreams, purpose and goals and live in great peace. If you are half-hearted, the Universe responds half-heartedly. If you are clear, the Universe responds clearly.

To attain the Mastery that is your birthright, you must be very purposeful in all that you do. No breath, thought or action is ever wasted. Everything is clear and on target. You know who you are and where you want to go or "be."

Please be assured that this is not a process that is rigid and dogmatic nor is it mental in nature. Nor is this a process that has as its primary focus the accomplishment of external goals. Rather it is a process of being in touch with your Self and, therefore, by being in touch, you become so true to your Self that your every breath, thought and action is inspired from the depths of your soul.

Thus you learn to live a life of impeccable clarity and ease and are no longer buffeted by the whims of the ego. Instead you live in a constant state of inspiration and revelation and flow from one experience to another.

So, to access this state one must take the time to look within and listen to one's Self by employing the sacred tools of meditation, prayer and contemplation.

November 21, 2008

Dedication, Discipline and Intentionality; the Keys to the "Good Life," Part I


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November 17, 2008

Dedication, Discipline and Intentionality; the Keys to the "Good Life," Part I

In whatever way works for you, it is so, so important daily to take the time to make connection with your Source. If you do not, then you will not be in touch with your Self. And, if you are not in touch with your Self, you can not "be" your Self.

You are your "most significant other." If you do not spend time with this most significant part of who you are, you will never be true to your Self nor will you know your Self.

So, some form of meditation, prayer or contemplation is essential in order to connect with your Self and to live the "Good Life." Hence, in order to become one with your Self, dedication, discipline and being clearly intentional are so important.

One of the fastest ways to become one with your Self is to be disciplined---that is to take time to meditate, pray, as mentioned above and to also exercise, eat well, fast, read uplifting literature, etc.---in other words to take time to develop "order and clarity" in your life and to "be" with your Self.

The word "discipline" and "disciple" come from a Latin root that means to grasp or to comprehend. So, to be disciplined means that you steadfastly focus on something so that in time you truly understand or master it. What could be more important than learning how to be a Master of one's life?

Very few people have the patience and discipline to apply this kind of focus in their lives. I dare say that most adults have a shorter attention span than children.

When you know who you are:
When your mission is clear and you burn with the inner fire of unbreakable will;
No cold can touch your heart;
No deluge can dampen your purpose.
You know that you are alive

Chief Seattle

See my next posting on November 24 for more on this theme.

November 14, 2008

When You are Quiet, You Can Eavesdrop on God


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November 10, 2008

When You are Quiet, You Can Eavesdrop on God

Remember, when you are quiet, you can eavesdrop on God.
And who is God?
You are,
She is,
He is,
It is,
Every thing and every one is.
"It" is all a reflection of You.
"It" is all a mirror reflecting You back to you.
"It" is all one voice, one harmonious choir--your voice, your choir!
You are "IT."
Clear away the illusions of your ego mind and
"see" and "hear" and "know" Thy SELF for Real!

Take the time every day to touch into this Reality and you will find the Peace that is at the core of your Being.

"Father, could you tell us something about yourself?"
The Monk leaned back.
"Myself?"' he mused.
There was a long pause.
"My name ... used to be ... Me ....
but now ... it's You."

The above is a brief dialogue from Theophane the Monk's, Tales of a Magic Monastery. Please meditate and reflect on it.

November 7, 2008

Contemplate the Infinite Potential and Possibilities That You Are


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November 3, 2008

Contemplate the Infinite Potential and Possibilities That You Are

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God and I in space alone
and nobody else in view.
"And where are the people, O Lord," I said,
"the earth below and the sky o'er head
and the dead whom once I knew?"

"That was a dream," God smiled and said,
"A dream that seemed to be true.
There were no people, living or dead,
there was no earth, and no sky o'er head;
there was only Myself -- in you."

"Why do I feel no fear," I asked,
"meeting You here this way?
For I have sinned I know full well--
and is there heaven, and is there hell,
and is this the Judgment Day?"
"Nay, those were but dreams,"
the Great God said,
"Dreams that have ceased to be.
There are no such things as fear or sin;
there is no you -- you never have been--
there is nothing at all
but Me."

Ella Wheeler Wilcox

You are an invisible fullness, a field of latent possibilities from which all things emerge.

Behind the universe moves this unnamable mystery. It is a pregnant state of love, energy, and intelligence, ready to continually give birth to new forms and absorb old and wasted ones in order to give them rebirth in new form again.

This invisible, unnamable mystery and fullness is infinite possibility. The processes of change, transformation and rebirth are the very fabric of the universe and they occur in this field of potential and latent possibilities.

Contemplate the infinite potential and possibilities that you are. The well of living waters you have to draw upon is unlimited. You can not and are not defined or limited by any role, experience, or lifetime you have had or are having. Allow yourself to experience/feel the full promise of who You ARE. Embrace the Mystery and Majesty of Your Self! Enter the Silence! Meditate! Embrace the Unknown! Embrace Your Self!

October 31, 2008

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October 27, 2008

The Unity of the Soul and the Inner Life: A Meditation

One should not give up, neglect or forget for a moment his inner life,
but she must learn to work within it, with it, and act out of it,
so that the unity of his soul may break out into all his activities.
Meister Eckhart

In order to fully and completely come to "know" ourselves and fully express ourselves in this life, we must go within. For within us is the storehouse or the treasure trove of our soul, that which is laden with an infinite number of gifts, love, power and wisdom.

There within, the richness and riches of who we are can be found. And once found will easily find a way to be expressed and manifested in our lives.

As we go within, we will be inspired to "right actions" and have revelations about who we really are. Again, only meditation can open this door to our inner treasure and inheritance and help reveal our true nature.

The mind masks this from us. Meditation reveals it! It's all an inside job! Let your intuition lead your way!

October 24, 2008

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October 20, 2008

Ah! To be a Child Again! A Meditation

Before we were indoctrinated to the rules of the word, with its entire do's and don'ts, we were actually very receptive. We were willing to try new things, go into forbidden places and take risks without hesitation. We did not believe in unhappiness, defeat, rejection or lack. We asked for what we wanted and were willing to demand that it be provided. We thought the world existed to respond to our needs. It might do us well to revert back to the ways of childhood if we want to bring some good into our lives. It's not the temper tantrums or childish outburst we want. It is the openness and freedom from limitation we need. We have been taught to accept fear, lack sorrow and restriction as a part of everyday life. We are afraid to make demands of life because we believe we can't have what we want. We no longer feel free to express what we feel, when we feel it. Now, we want to be everyone's friend. If only we would think like a child again, there's a good chance we would find the freedom we gave up to become adults.

Iyanla Vanzant

You must be like a child to enter the Kingdom of Heaven.
Jesus of Nazareth

Just read through these words a few times in a meditative state. They are food for your soul. Then just sit in meditation and see, sense or feel whatever impressions, thoughts, feelings or images arise for you about you. Be receptive, objective and open!

Reading an inspiring passage and then just sitting with it in meditation is another form of meditation you may want to put into practice.

Besides this passage, find any inspiring passage you resonate with, read it and then just sit and see what happens! There are many ways to meditate and connect with your Source. Meditating on an inspiring passage is one I love to practice regularly especially when my mind is overly active.

October 17, 2008

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October 13, 2008

Meditation is Spiritual Food

Recently someone wrote me the following question about staying in balance. So, I thought I would share my response.

Yanni,

I really want to invest in what matters. I no longer want to be side-tracked by thoughts, projects, or people who are not on my path. I am a unique soul with a very unique focus and I really want to explore my interests to the fullest. How can we live in the 5th dimension or higher right here and now?

Meditation helps me to stay calm and peaceful and feel connected to God and others. When days pass and I have not had the chance to meditate I find my self rushing and getting crazy and upset with how fast life is moving and with how much there is to do.
Mary

My response:
You've answered your own question, Mary. Just as fish can not live out of water and a physical body can not live without air, a spirit (which is what you and I are in essence) cannot live without meditating or connecting with our Source on a consistent, regular basis. This connection or communion with our Source is our spirit's food or air. Without it, we literally starve or die of asphyxiation. Yet many are living or should I say dieing in this way.

As well, by staying connected, you will find answers to all your questions regarding what to do next, where to do it, when to do it and with whom. By staying connected you act from a place of inspiration and newness rather than from your old place of stagnant default patterns. When you are in a place of connection, you open to allowing new thoughts, people and experiences into your life that are truly for your highest good.

Life can be new, fresh and joy filled moment to moment and day to day, if you keep yourself in a place of connection! So, do your best to slow down each day, take a few deep breaths and no matter what is going on get in touch with your Self. Then you will have found the key to living the "Good Life," staying in balance, and making choices in all aspects of your life that are for your highest good.

Hope this helps! Blessings! Peace be with you!

Yanni

October 10, 2008

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October 6, 2008

You are an Emperor, not a Beggar: a Meditation

You are an emperor, not a beggar. You possess the untold wealth of the universe, unimaginable riches. Don't beg for enlightenment, don't plead for it. You are the Self, don't assume that you are impoverished. Give up that yearning and be quiet and the treasure will be self-evident as your very nature.

Author unknown

"We are all gods and goddesses in training," as Deepak Chopra wrote.

We have come forth to explore and manifest the god/goddess potential within us.

We have come forth to be a god/goddess in finite form and to anchor and embody an aspect of that infinite Love that is our Source.

We are here to unravel the mystery of who we are.
We are here to discover the majesty of who we are.

We can never fail; we have success written all over us.
It is encoded in our DNA, in our eternal, hard wired template.

We are chips off the old holographic block, often called god/goddess, and are made in his/her Image.

When we enter the Silence, deep from within us rises up a feeling, a "knowing" of who we really are.

And in this place of clarity, we "know," beyond any doubt, fear or limiting belief system who and why we are.
We know that we are of noble stock and heirs of all that is great and good!

Be still and ye shall know!

The strongest tree has the deepest roots. Dig deep, deep within and you will find and know thy Self!

October 3, 2008

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September 29, 2008

Believe in Your Self! A Meditation

Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it.
Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations.
Do not believe in anything because it is spoken and rumored by many.
Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books.
Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers or elders.
But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason,
and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all,
then accept it and live it.
The Buddha, in the Kalama Sutra

I find the above advice from the Buddha rather amazing given that it was written over 2,500 years ago. Nowadays with the advent of the internet and the incredible amount of information that is so readily available to us, his guidance is even more essential.

An old adage goes: "No shoe fits all sizes." So, too, no teaching or teacher is the proper fit for everyone. I have learned over the years to practice discernment and really go within to make sure that whatever teacher or teaching I am studying really rings true for me.

I have found over the years that the only way to know for sure is to initially, of course, take the time to study and research the teacher or teachings; but ultimately I have learned not to use my mind and not to do an intellectual analysis. What I have learned to do, instead, is to quiet my mind, go into the stillness and just "feel" what is right. And then if it "feels" right, I "accept it and live it."

As well, I periodically go within and check again and again to see if it still "feels" right given that I am constantly evolving and changing.

What I am not saying here is to keep shopping around and never settle on anything. No, not at all! What I am saying here is to always go within to make sure you are still on the right path, namely your path and not anyone else's!

A path is not a static experience. It is something you travel upon; it is a journey. Yes, at times you stop to rest, but then you get up and continue the journey moving through an ever changing landscape. Your life, your dreams are constantly evolving! So, too, are your belief systems!

Every teacher/teaching is a step up your mountain of mastery. But each step leads to another step. No step is an end in and of itself.

One of the things I love to repeat over and over in my classes is: "If you follow any one but your Self, you will surely get lost!" You must be "true to yourself." And the only way to do that and to know your path and to come to "know thy Self" is to go within regularly and listen. Then you will stay on your path.

Meditation is the key that helps you to go within. It helps you to find and follow your Self and to truly know and believe in Your Self.

September 26, 2008

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September 22, 2008

Believing the Impossible! A Meditation

"One can't believe impossible things," Alice said.
"I daresay you haven't had much practice," said the Queen.
"When I was your age, I always did it for half an hour a day.
Why, sometimes I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast."
Alice in Wonderland

What is possible? Whatever you believe to be possible is what is possible! The impossible is impossible because you believe it to be so.

We create our reality by virtue of what we believe. Within each one of us is enormous potential, but often we do not manifest it or even realize it is there. In Latin the root for the word "potential" is the same as the root for the word "potency."

Within each of us is such great potency or power or potential to create, but because we think small, we create and experience small. The Universe/God is infinite potential waiting to be actualized. And, we, through our thoughts and feelings, can draw in this infinite potential and make it manifest. This drawing in of that infinite potential via our thoughts is precisely what qualifies us to be co-creators made in his/her Image.

But if your thoughts and beliefs about what is possible for you are small, you will never dream or create or experience "big." Why not get out of the old box and dream and think big, since you dream and think all the time anyhow? Think big, not small and all things are possible.

Take a few minutes each day in meditation to observe how big or small your thoughts and dreams are and then adjust in whatever way feels right.

You can have anything you want, if you will give up the belief that you can't have it.
Albert Einstein

September 19, 2008

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September 15, 2008

Living Today's Dream and Not Yesterday's, a Meditation

If you do not go within, you go without.
Neale Donald Walsch

Remember to look within. For it is only there that one can really find who one truly is and what is most important.

Take some time on a regular basis to slow down and go within. Suspend for awhile what you "think" you "should" be doing and instead just listen to the Silence within and allow its "voice" to speak to you.

Slowing down and taking inventory of who you presently are and where you are headed is sooooooo important. The word inventory comes from a Latin word which means "to come or go within." So, by slowing down your overly active thinking mind, you can go within and in the Quiet hear your Self rather than your ego mind's never-ending prattle.

So, take a few deep breaths now, quiet your mind and go within and gently and without too much focus ask, "What dream am I living now? Am I living the dream I had five years ago? Can I be happy and fulfilled living yesterday's dream or someone else's dream? What is my dream today?"

Gently allow these questions or similar ones to float out there and then just sit back and "listen." No, do not seek to hear your mind's ruminations, but actually just be still and sense, see and feel whatever impressions, feelings or images arise. Just "be" with them and with your Self.

You will be surprised at what comes up for you, if you leave your mind behind. Don't strain or "try," just allow the process to come to you. Be open and receptive. In time, as you practice this, a clearer and clearer vision will come to you of you.

Actually, as you practice this, you learn that being conscious of who you are is a moment to moment process. It is a process whereby you learn to "feel" first rather than "think" first. It is a process whereby you lose your mind and come to your senses.

It can be a bit of a stretch to ignore your mind and, instead, listen first to your heart/Soul or your intuition/feelings, but it's a good stretch. I suggest you try it for awhile because by doing so, you will find your Dreams and Your Self!

Who looks outside, sleeps.
Who looks inside, awakens.
Carl Jung

September 12, 2008

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September 8, 2008

It's All New: A Morning Meditation

A new day, a new beginning! It's all so new, if we but stop and look. Nothing is the same as we left it. And even though our daily routines make us think it is all the same, it never is or can be.

So, we can exult in the "newness" of every moment of every "routine" and know that it is all fresh, new and joy filled. And as we see the "newness" and freshness of every moment, we come to appreciate and adore it all.

Thus, you may want to say to yourself: "I really want to bring this sense of newness and freshness into all I do from now on. To just stop, breathe and appreciate; to savor. To just 'be' present for each moment's gift, for each moment's 'newness'."

There can be no greater joy or fulfillment than to be filled with the richness of each moment. If one reaches and strives for the hoped for fulfillment in the future, one will always come up empty handed. There is only the present. Let us seize each and every moment and be filled to overflowing with all it has to offer. LET IT ALL COME TO YOU! Be present and it will!

In order to allow yourself to experience the "newness" of a moment, experiment with the following. Whenever you can, just stop; take a couple of deep breaths; then become aware of your body by doing a brief body scan from the top of your head to the tips of your toes. This will bring you into the present.

Then focus on your inhalation and just imagine that you are breathing in "newness," "freshness," and "joy." And on the exhalation, imagine that you are releasing the old, stagnant, and mutated energies. Then continue focusing on your breath and your breathing. Breathing in all that is new and fresh and joy-filled and releasing on the exhalation all that is old, worn and stagnant. After a few moments of doing this, all will be made fresh and anew!

Remember, you only see what you are looking for; you only get what you are asking for!

August 25, 2008

What is Life? A Meditation

Life is not a problem to be solved, but a mystery to be lived.
Thomas Merton

I

I would rather live in a world where my life is surrounded by mystery
than live in a world so small that my mind could comprehend it.
Kat Cathey

Most of us habitually try to control all aspects of our lives: our relationships, our work environments, our health, our finances, etc, but usually we don't succeed. We do this to feel safe and secure. We do this so that we can be happy. But the irony is that in tenaciously holding on so hard, we waste most of our precious energy in trying to control things. We exhaust ourselves trying to anticipate what may happen and we squeeze all the joy, creativity and spontaneity out of life.

By spending so much energy trying to make sure that everything and everyone follows a specific script that we have in mind, we miss a myriad of opportunities to really enjoy and experience Life. We never allow for Life to simply come to us! We are constantly trying to force it to "go our way." We leave no room for wonder and magic.

We always want to know what is going to happen next, but by doing so we limit the boundless possibilities that are available to us. Life isn't a script to be followed word by word, but a new, fresh potential waiting to be expressed or actualized, moment to moment.

It is only when we allow for the unexpected and unknown to happen that "magic" or "real Life" can happen. All that is new, fresh and joy filled can only be found in the "unknown." The "known" is stagnant, old and calcified.

Embrace the "unknown" and there you will find Life! Tenaciously hold on to the "known" and there you will find stagnation!

Allow for the mysteries of life to delight you! Learn to live in the moment and be free! Learn to trust that it is all there for you! Each moment will take care of it self! Become a Master of the mysteries of Life.

Cease trying to work things out with your mind,
it will get you nowhere.
Let your whole life be led by Intuition and Inspiration
Let your whole life be a Revelation.
Eileen Cady

In order to allow yourself to be in the moment, to experience the mystery and magic of it all, experiment with the following. Whenever you can, just stop; take a couple of deep breaths; then become aware of your body by doing a brief body scan from the top of your head to the tips of your toes. This will bring you into the present.

Then allow your attention to be simply in the present only focused on the rise and fall of your abdomen as you breathe in and out. Suspend all thought and then just feel. Don't think! Feel! And ask and allow for an insight or an inspiration to reveal itself to you! And then sit back, with your mind disengaged and then absorb and enJoy whatever insight or inspiration you receive! It may come as a thought, an impression, an image or a feeling.

In this way you can live in the moment and allow the mystery and magic of Life to enter your experiences. In this way you can live Life to the fullest and be a Master of your Life and no longer a slave of circumstances.

If you haven't already, feel free to join my membership area and get a free audio talk on meditation and a free 6 minute guided meditation. As well, my meditation CDs go into greater depth regarding how to make this connection with the core of your Being and with your Self. If you have interest, my CDs can be found at: http://www.learnmastery.com/AudioTapesByYanni.htm

Also, my book and audio package, Magical Keys to Self-Mastery: Creating Miracles in Your Life, is a primer on Meditation and Intuition: http://www.MagicalKeystoSelfMastery.com

August 18, 2008

Compassion: A Meditation

Meditation is the art of learning how to tend the sacred ground of your life.
Meditation connects you with your inner world.
By meditating you learn how to care for the garden of your mind.
First, you learn to identify what is growing there.
Then you learn how to nurture and plant what you want
and weed out what you do not want.
Yanni Maniates


Mother Teresa once said:

"There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread."

The one thing that we cannot get enough of, the one thing that there is no possibility of ever overusing; of ever over receiving or of ever over giving is Compassion or Love. As the saying goes; "No matter what the question; Love is the answer."

Whenever you find your self caught up in your negative thought patterns, or your negative emotional states, being self-critical or critical of another, or enmeshed in your negative imagination or worry; sit back and drink in Compassion. As you drink in that Compassion all the tension and negativity will start to release. And then you will remember and accept that your natural state of being is that of feeling and being in the Embrace, of being at Peace, of being in Love!

It's quite easy to do, actually! Find a quiet place and moment, close your eyes, take a few deep cleansing breaths and then just imagine someone you love, be they a loved one or an esteemed spiritual teacher/master, and "see"/imagine them right there in front of you. Look into their eyes, the mirror of their soul, and then just feel their love flowing to you. Open up your heart to feeling their care, compassion and unconditional love for you. Hold this image and feeling for a couple of minutes. And in just a few minutes, you will feel so refreshed! You can do this a couple of times a day, too!

Compassion is at the heart of meditation because it connects us with who we really are and what is truly at our core. I would urge you to give yourself at least one dose of this daily, even for just a few minutes. You deserve it! Please try it. You will be very grateful you did.

If you haven't already, feel free to join my membership area and get a free audio talk on meditation and a free 6 minute guided meditation. As well, my Meditation CD "Peace of Mind is a Thought Away" goes into greater depth regarding how to make this connection with Compassion.

If you have interest, my CDs can be found at: http://www.learnmastery.com/AudioTapesByYanni.htm

Also, my book and audio package, Magical Keys to Self-Mastery: Creating Miracles in Your Life, is a primer on Meditation and Intuition: http://www.MagicalKeystoSelfMastery.com

August 15, 2008

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August 11, 2008

All is in Divine Order and Timing! A Meditation

FAITH
Faith is the bird that feels the light
and sings when the dawn is still dark.
Rabindranath Tagore


Above all, trust in the slow work of God.

We are quite naturally impatient in everything to reach the end without delay. We should like to skip the intermediate stages where we are, impatient to being on the way to something unknown, something new. And yet it is the law of all progress that it is made by passing through some stages of instability and that it may take a very long time. And so, I think it is with you. Your ideas mature gradually. Let them grow. Let them shape themselves without undue haste. Don't try to force them on as though you could be today what time, that is to say, grace and circumstances, acting on your own good will, will make of you tomorrow. Only God could say what this new spirit gradually forming within you will be.

Give yourself the benefit of believing that the Divine hand is leading you. And accept the anxiety of feeling yourself in suspense and incomplete.

Teilhard de Chardin

All is in Divine Order and Divine Timing. There is a rhythm and rhyme for all that we experience. If we just allow ourselves the opportunity to slow down and go within and listen to the Silence that is there; there we will see the "bigger picture;" there we will find the answer to all our questions; there we will know that we are "Good;" there we will know that we are held in the "Embrace;" there we will know that "All is well."

There, too, we will know that the Universe is a supportive, nurturing, friendly place and that it is on our side. It is rooting for us.

The "still, small voice" within is your most trustworthy ally! Learn to "listen" to your most "significant other," that is, this "still, small voice" within. Learn to listen to your Self!

By taking the time to slow down each day and go into meditation, you can enter this place of Silence, of Magic, of your Essence and come to truly know Your Self and where you really are in your life. Please try it. You'll be grateful you did!

For everything there is a season,
and a time for every matter under heaven.
Ecclesiastes


Live your life as a Meditation and not as a race.
Let it all proceed at the speed of Grace!

If you haven't already, feel free to join my membership area and get a free audio talk on meditation and a free 6 minute guided meditation. As well, my meditation CDs go into greater depth regarding how to make this connection with the Silence and with your Self. If you have interest, my CDs can be found at: http://www.learnmastery.com/AudioTapesByYanni.htm

Also, my book and audio package, Magical Keys to Self-Mastery: Creating Miracles in Your Life, is a primer on Meditation and Intuition: http://www.MagicalKeystoSelfMastery.com

August 8, 2008

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August 4, 2008

How to Get Things Done! A Meditation

Whenever something comes up to be done, before you jump headlong into doing it; Stop and ask yourself, "How can I make this easy?" "How can this be easy, enjoyable, effortless and elegant?"

And keep asking and asking and asking!

And keep believing and believing and believing that it can be!

And keep expecting and expecting and expecting that it already has been done!

And, lo and behold, this will help you to release the intensity around what needs to be "done" and will allow you to slow down enough so that you can recognize, find and take the easy, enjoyable, effortless, elegant way.

Whatever you consciously ask for, and consciously look for and consciously expect, you will receive.

So, remember to always ask for the "easy" way and you will find it! You no longer need to choose struggle and feel overwhelmed!

See your life as a Meditation and not a race. Let it proceed at the speed of Grace!

"Seek and ye shall find, ask and ye shall receive."

Slow down and try this technique the next time you feel in a hurry. Create the intention that you can make things happen in a way that is easy and enjoyable for you. You deserve it!

August 1, 2008

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July 28, 2008

How to Fly in Your Life? A Meditation

How can you fly?
You create your own wings!
How can you create your own wings?
Keep dreaming and dreaming and dreaming!
Your dreams are what create your experiences.
And as you keep dreaming and believing in your dreams and in your self,
all your dreams will not only come true,
but they will give you the wings to fly.
And if you dare to let go of the nest, these wings will catch the wind.
And if you allow, the winds will embrace, support and transport you
and carry you not only to all your dreams,
but even beyond to the full potential of your Self!
Yanni Maniates

Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating your self.
George Bernard Shaw

Our beginnings never know our ends.
T.S. Eliot

In order for you to create anything in your life, you must first dream or imagine it. Whether you are aware of it or not, you constantly use your imagination. You either continually "awfulize" and "catastophize" and dream up your worst nightmares through worry, fear and anger. Or you use your imagination to aspire to the highest of your potential through faith, hope, love and dreaming big.

Since you are always imagining or dreaming about something anyhow, why not make it a dream that is truly big, worthwhile and of greatest value to you and to others.

You get to choose what you focus on and what you get in life. You choose whether you learn to glide and fly or whether you struggle and crawl through life! You get to create your own wings or your own crutches!

And the real "neat" thing about all this is that once you learn to fly you learn that, "the sky is no longer the limit," only you were!

So, take some time now to quiet your mind and just listen to what you are thinking about. Are you dreaming big and bold or are you caught up in a negative loop of thoughts. Are you creating something exciting and noble in your mind? Or are you rehashing old, stale scenarios? You get to choose.

July 25, 2008

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July 21, 2008

What is the Present? A Meditation

The Present is something you "pre"-"sent" to yourself.
It is your present (your gift) to your self.
What are you "pre"-"send"ing to your self now?

We create our reality by the predominant thoughts and emotions that we hold. "Like attracts like" is a universal law. Be happy and happiness follows. Feel abundant and abundance comes. The Universe reflects back to us what we are feeling, whether we are conscious of it or not. What we experience in our lives is an objective mirror reflecting back to us the predominant thoughts and feelings we have.

We can change what we are experiencing by first observing our predominant thoughts and feelings; and then we can choose to gradually change whatever we don't like. And by doing this, we eventually will have different experiences knocking at our door.

Meditation is a wonderful way to learn how to become aware of your thoughts and by becoming aware of them you can become a Master of your thoughts, your emotions and ultimately your life. Meditation allows you to objectively observe your mental chatter and then by doing so you can choose to change it.

So, try just "being" with yourself in meditation and see what comes up. Just "listen" to yourself! And then, after you have observed your patterns for awhile, gradually change what doesn't really serve and uplift you you and keep what does. You'll know the difference.

Nothing is, but what thinking makes it so.
Shakespeare
We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong.
The amount of work is the same.
Carlos Castaneda

So, take a few minutes a day for the next week to sit and observe your thoughts. While focusing on your breath, notice the patterns and types of thoughts that come up for you. Don't get caught up in them; just witness them. By doing this you will see the patterns and then can begin to intentionally shift them.

Even this simple practice can have a profound effect on the quality of your life.

If you have interest, my meditation CD entitled: Peace of Mind is a Thought Away: Mastery Meditations goes into greater depth about this process: http://www.learnmastery.com/AudioTapesByYanni.htm

Also, my book and audio package, Magical Keys to Self-Mastery: Creating Miracles in Your Life, is a primer on Meditation and Intuition: http://www.MagicalKeystoSelfMastery.com

July 11, 2008

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July 9, 2008

Perfection Over the Illusion, Part X

This is Part X of a ten part blog.


9) Will a different reality.

What you expect, you receive. Whatever you are looking for or looking at is what you see. Use the power of your mind to see the best in all and in yourself and you will experience the best. Keep your thoughts clear, pure, intentional and purposeful by using your will and you will create a new reality. Be clear and you will have clarity!

You are not a victim. Look at your thoughts and the predominant emotions that you have and if any of them are of a low quality, change them. You and only you have the strength and power to change them and you can.

You are a powerful creator! You created what you don't want; what makes you think you can not create what you do want.

You create your reality.
You create your experiences.
You give them meaning.
You get to choose!
You are a Master of your Life!

I hope that these reflections are helpful to you.

We really do create our reality and give meaning to our lives and experiences by the way we choose to interpret them and the perspective we choose to bring to bear upon them. Our happiness does not arise from anything we do, but by virtue of what we believe and think.

Do you live by choosing to experience your life through the eyes and heart of your Soul or do you choose to live by hiding in the shadows of your ego?

Reflect on these things!

This is Part X of a ten part blog.

July 7, 2008

Perfection Over the Illusion, Part IX

This is Part IX of a ten part blog.

8) Go within and bring in the God presence over and over again and you will be free of all this suffering. Then you will have attained "perfection over the illusion."

Take the time to regularly sit in meditation and there in that Silence, where the ego mind is still and your heart is open, you will be filled with the Presence of God/Goddess and there you will know who you are and without a doubt you will know deep within you that you have eternal everlasting value. As well, you will also know that that value is inherent in you and in every living creature.

There is nothing you need to do or become or possess in this lifetime in order to realize your value. You are already THAT! You are God/Goddess in finite form who has taken on a temporary personality in this lifetime in order to manifest and embody Love. Period!

That's why you are here. It's not complicated. By realizing this, you will have attained "perfection over the illusion" and you will know your eternal value.

It's not about what we "do" with our lives that matters; it all about who we "become." So, open your heart and quiet your mind regularly and consistently and you will then come to truly "know ThySelf."

But to attain this awareness you must consistently take the time to go within over and over again so that you can touch in with "Reality," that is, God/Goddess. Otherwise the world of illusion will drag and beat you down and you will forget who you really ARE.

This is Part IX of a ten part blog.

July 4, 2008

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July 2, 2008

Perfection Over the Illusion, Part VIII

This is Part VIII of a ten part blog.

6) I am a Divine Spirit. I have everything that is needed.

You truly are a Divine Spirit having a human experience. You are here to learn "love," give "love," receive "love," and become "love." Within you, you have all the Wisdom and love to create the best possible life for yourself.

You were made in His/Her Image. You are a co-creator with God/Goddess of your own reality. God/Goddess is infinite potential and all He/She asks of you to believe in your eternal, infinite Self and by doing so you can embody and manifest all the potential that is within you. Everything is possible, if you believe that to be so.

You are a chip off the old holographic block called God/Goddess. Why not begin to claim your birthright and become who You are!

7) Know without any uncertainty that your fears and insecurities are not your true self; that your true self is totally integrated, totally capable of handling every thing over time in the right way and with enough patience it can accomplish what it came to accomplish.

When you feel inadequate, fearful, disconnected or like a victim, you are identifying with your "little self." That part of you that has forgotten who it really is and what you are really capable of. Everything is possible for you! You can do it! And you can truly know what it is that you came to fulfill and accomplish in this lifetime.

This is Part VIII of a ten part blog.

June 30, 2008

Perfection Over the Illusion, Part VII

This is Part VII of a ten part blog.

4) There is no insufficiency in you. You will get past it. This will work for you!

When you feel down and out and disempowered, you're basically feeling that you are deep down at your core inadequate or unworthy and that there isn't anything you can do to bring yourself out of it. The fact of the matter is that you are never given a challenge that you can't overcome. It's only your thinking about your thinking that makes you feel that way.

You are not a victim. You are a Master. "I am not a victim; I AM a Master." Keep repeating this phrase to yourself because it is true! This is what be a Master is really all about!

5) "When I awaken tomorrow, no matter what comes my way, I am more than adequate to handle it! I will find all of the solutions through my objectivity and my own inner spiritual power."

You are a very powerful spiritual being who has come forth to embody the gifts and strengths that are who you really are. Claim your Divinity and your strength. Know without out a doubt that you are a Master of your Life and a powerful, creative soul. By stepping back from the fears and insecurities of your ego mind and witnessing them objectively rather than getting all caught up in their drama, you can, in that objective place of Silence and meditation, find solutions to all your "problems" and reclaim your power.

This is Part VII of a ten part blog.

June 27, 2008

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June 25, 2008

Perfection Over the Illusion, Part VI

This is Part VI of a ten part blog.

3) Don't fall out of agreement with what is happening because when you do, you create a lot of emotional turmoil and resistance.

What you resist persists!

Embracing who you are and where you are in your life presently is the quickest cure for tension and anxiety and for resolving those very issues that you wish were not in your life.

Where you are is where you are!

To deny it or try to push it away only creates more of it. As you embrace and then honestly face the situation you have created, you can then let go of it enough and step back far enough from it to now see the bigger picture and get broadest perspective.

By stepping back in this way and giving some "space" to the situation, you can and will be inspired to take the right action that will lead to the Highest Good for all involved. As well, it will help you to transmute the energies of what you don't want into what you do want. In other words, by doing this you will see "outside the box" and thus you will be led to find empowered solutions.

As Albert Einstein said, "you can't solve a problem at the level it was created." You must see the bigger picture by seeing the situation with the eyes and heart of your Soul. You must quiet the fearful ego mind and all the drama it creates and instead listen to your Soul.


This is Part VI of a ten part blog.

June 23, 2008

Perfection Over the Illusion, Part V

This is Part V of a ten part blog.

1) Today I am going to create a day of peace and harmony.

You get to set the tone for your day. If you wake up grumpy and unfocused, you will attract more of the same. But if, when you wake up, you set a clear intention that you are looking to create peace and harmony in your day today [guess what?] peace and harmony is what you will mostly experience.

So, upon awakening, rather than allowing for random thoughts and feelings to enter, instead, clearly focus on peace and harmony and then think, feel and imagine the events that are coming up in your day to be filled with peace and harmony. As well, during the day create periodic reminders that help you remember that above all other things it is peace and harmony that you want to experience this day.

The more you do this, the easier it gets to do and the better and more intentional your life becomes.

2) I can look at these things going on in my life now and say, "I am in charge here and can be in a place of profound peace."

No matter what you are experiencing, know that you are not a "victim of circumstances," but a Master of your life. You get to make the "best" of any and every situation you are in and you get to choose how you feel about what you are experiencing. You can make lemonade out of lemons. You can see the Highest Good and the Divine plan in it all.

This is Part V of a ten part blog.

June 20, 2008

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June 18, 2008

Perfection Over the Illusion, Part IV

This is Part IV of a ten part blog.

Over the years I have come up with numerous phrases, thoughts and interpretations that have helped me to raise my thoughts/energies around everything that happens in my life. It has made a world of a difference in terms of how I have experienced my life.

So, what I would like to do now is to share some of these with you. These are the ways that I use to see the Highest Good in all situations and to do my best to see everything from a Divine perspective.

You and only you get to give meaning or an interpretation to the experiences you have. What someone else thinks or believes about your experiences or about you doesn't matter at all. All that matters is what you think or believe about yourself or your experiences.

And, yes, you get to choose how to "see" the things that happen in your life. Coming to know that I get to choose how I interpret the events in my life is the most important thing I have learned. Because of this understanding I have created a great deal of peace, joy and empowerment in my life.

So, I will now share with you a number of of these phrases, thoughts and interpretations that I have used over the years. As well, I will offer some commentary as to what they mean to me and how I use them.

This is Part IV of a ten part blog.

June 16, 2008

Perfection Over the Illusion, Part III

This is Part III of a ten part blog.

So, let's begin with the following questions:

What creates your reality?
What creates your experiences?
Who or what gives them meaning?
You and only you do!

If you resolve to have a different reality, you will experience a different reality.

So, how do you resolve to have a different reality?

You do so by observing the thoughts and interpretations you have about yourself and about your experiences and then you consciously and intentionally choose thoughts and interpretations that place everything in the best light. You seek to see the Highest Good in every situation. You seek to see yourself and the events in your life from God/Goddesses' perspective.

As well, you very carefully and very honestly observe what your beliefs about the Universe are and what you expect from it. And if any of it is anything less than what you would ideally want, you change it.

In other words, get quiet for a minute or so now and ask yourself: Is the Universe a friendly and supportive place; or is it a neutral one; or is it "out to get me?" What do you really believe?

This is really worth taking a few minutes to sit quietly with and meditate on. It can and will make a world of a difference for you if you honestly and lovingly look at it. So, please do so before reading on.

Your underlying core belief about what kind of a Universe you live in has a huge impact on what you experience in your life. Usually this is an area that is unexamined by most people. But I can assure you that it is extremely important to look at.

This is Part III of a ten part blog.

June 13, 2008

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June 11, 2008

Perfection Over the Illusion, Part II

This is Part II of a ten part blog.

Our ego mind is meant to be the servant of our Soul and not the other way around. Our Soul is meant to be in the driver's seat of our lives for it sees the whole picture and understand the context and purpose for all that we experience in our lives. We are meant to live a life filled with inspiration and revelation and not one that is filled with perspiration and frustration.

So, learning how to get out of your head/mind and instead live from your heart and Soul can be a challenge. But I have found that living an authentic and empowered life can never be achieved if I solely identify myself with my ego and with the "things" in my life. I must instead come to know my Self, that is my Higher Self, and then live an empowered and passionate life that springs forth from the depths of my Soul and heart and is filled with life-sustaining, creative, vibrant energies.

There is a great depth and breadth to this "gift of life" that we have all been given and it is only through mastering our minds and opening our hearts that we can access a fulfilled, authentic and empowered life.

So, what follows are a series of techniques with which I have learned to master my mind. By learning to master my mind I have begun to live my life as an empowered person and not as a victim. I trust that you will find these techniques and the reflections about them of value to you on your path up the mountain of your own Self-Mastery.

This is Part II of a ten part blog.

June 9, 2008

Perfection Over the Illusion, Part I

This is Part I of a ten part blog.

In this series of ten blog posts beginning today, I will explore the concept that "we shape and create our reality and experiences by the thoughts we focus on." As well, I will give advice on how to master the thoughts that we have and thus create the life we want.

Usually we are quite unaware of the predominant thoughts we have. As well, we usually are unaware of the worldview and general belief systems we have.

Most people, without questioning, just follow the dominant thought patterns and worldview of their culture, country or family. There is little reflection about the beliefs that they hold or the way that they look at themselves and others.

Their worldview has been passed down for generations or it is a mish-mash of corporate- fed faux journalism that is often very disconnected from reality and is really just selling advertising. Unfortunately, most people just follow along, never questioning the dominant cultural beliefs, their lives, their own beliefs or themselves.

But as Socrates once said: "The life unexamined is not worth living."

It is a struggle and challenge to rise above the lowest common denominator thinking that is so dominant in our culture. As well, it is not easy to understand that our thoughts affect our reality; and that how our ego or "little self" interprets the events in our lives is never how our Soul does.

This is Part I of a ten part blog.

May 21, 2008

Peace of Mind is an Image Away: Breathing Compassion Meditation, Part II

This is Part II of a two Part Blog which began on May 19.

In this regard, another aspect of meditation that I feel is not emphasized enough or understood enough is that meditation helps you to connect with the higher energies. Most of us do not realize that our internal dialogue is mostly negative. That is, it is usually self-deprecating or it is negative towards another. The problem with this is that whatever we focus on, we attract more of.

So, if we are in a negative thinking state, we are attracting more negative thoughts which eventually attract negative experiences into our lives. As well, negative thoughts create stress hormones in our body. These stress hormones are catabolic in nature which means that they break down or eat away at our bodies from the inside out; and this actually is the ultimate cause of all illness.

So, negative thinking, even if it is unconscious, wrecks havoc on us physiologically and it also attracts negative experiences into our lives.

So, who needs it? Why not use our mind energy to experience, create and receive compassion and love?

Whatever we focus on, we get more of.

Therefore, I would like to lead you in a Compassion Meditation on the Podcast of Friday, May 16, 2008. In this meditation you will be given the opportunity to connect with a higher realm of energies that are always with you and that are more than willing to immerse and envelop you in the Light and Embrace of All That Is.

Be assured that practicing this daily will have a profound impact on your life. Actually, it could save your life!

So, join me on Friday for a Compassion meditation. I would urge you to give yourself at least one dose of this daily, even for just a few minutes. You deserve it!

NB If you are new to meditation, please go to my blog posts of May 5 and 7, 2008 for guidance on how to meditate.

FYI, this "Compassion Meditation" is from my Meditation CD entitled: Peace of Mind is a Thought Away: Mastery Meditations.

If you are interested in finding out more about my Meditations CDs, please go to the following link: http://www.learnmastery.com/AudioTapesByYanni.htm

So, enJoy and Relax!

This is Part II of a two part Blog.

May 19, 2008

Peace of Mind is an Image Away: Breathing Compassion Meditation, Part I

This is Part I of a two Part Blog.

Meditation is the art of learning how to tend the sacred ground of your life.
Meditation connects you with your inner world.
By meditating you learn how to care for the garden of your mind.
First, you learn to identify what is growing there.
Then you learn how to nurture and plant what you want
and weed out what you do not want.


There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread.
Mother Teresa

The one thing that we cannot get enough of, the one thing that there is no possibility of overusing or over receiving or over giving is Compassion and Love. As the saying goes, "No matter what the question, love is the answer."

Whenever you find your self caught up in negative thought patterns, or negative emotional states, being self-critical or critical of another, or enmeshed in your negative imagination or worry, sit back and drink in compassion. As you drink in that compassion all the tension and negativity will start to release. And then you will remember and accept that your natural state of being is that of feeling and being at peace and in the Embrace.

Compassion is at the heart of meditation because it connects you with who you really are and what is truly at your core. Also, without compassion, meditation is all too likely to become just another activity that you do not do enough of or are doing incorrectly or are not getting quick enough results with. So, it is very important to give yourself a good dose of compassion each day.

Most people who practice meditation do not realize how important this is.

This is part I of a two part blog.

May 16, 2008

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May 14, 2008

Peace of Mind is a Thought Away: Mastering Your Thoughts with Meditation, Part II

This is Part II of a two Part Blog.

So, the point of all this is to encourage you to not take your thoughts personally or seriously. Don’t take them to “heart”. Don’t identify with them. See them as happening outside of you.

This is similar to when a friend or a loved one is really upset about something or someone, and has really “lost it.” You can understand why they may be losing it and you certainly have empathy for them, but really, you wonder why they are making such a big deal of it? So, in this case, you are able to step back and be a witness to all the drama they are in, but not get drawn in to it.

Likewise you eventually will begin to look at your own “stuff” and laugh and say to yourself, “So, what’s the big deal with this? So what? This is just an old reactive, habitual pattern of mine. Here we go again. I can proactively choose a new response, a new habit, a new series of thoughts. So, I‘ll just take a few deep breaths, label the thought, distance myself from it and just forget about it.”

You don’t have to pay attention to thoughts that don’t feel good.

So, join me on my Friday Podcast for a Thought Labeling meditation. Peace of Mind really is a choice you can opt into every moment in your life.

NB If you are new to meditation, please go to my blog posts of May 5 and 7, 2008 for guidance on how to meditate.

FYI, this “Thought Labeling Meditation” is from my Meditation CD entitled: Peace of Mind is a Thought Away: Mastery Meditations.If you are interested in finding out more about my Meditations CDs, please go to the following link: http://www.learnmastery.com/AudioTapesByYanni.htm

So, enJoy and Relax!

This is Part II of a two part Blog.

May 12, 2008

Peace of Mind is a Thought Away: Mastering Your Thoughts with Meditation, Part I

This is Part I of a two part blog.

Continuing with the theme of teaching you how to master your thoughts which began in my last series of blog posts which started on April 14, I’d like to now briefly introduce you to a thought labeling meditation. I will lead you in this thought labeling meditation on my Friday Podcast later this week.

In this thought labeling meditation what you are going to do, instead of counting your thoughts, is to label them. So, if you find yourself having an angry thought during this mediation, rather than saying and feeling “I am angry,” which is like saying, “I am anger.” [Oh my goodness, what a statement to make!] No, rather say: “I am having an angry thought.”

As thoughts wander in and out, the idea, the point, is not to get caught up in them, not to identify with them. By the way, if you are really not noticing any thoughts while doing this meditation, enjoy the quiet and don’t try to find any to label. But if a thought does arise, just label it. Don’t get attached or identified with it.

Some labels you can use are: “planning,” “worry,” “desire,” “fearful,” “future,” “past,” “judgmental,” “self-judgment,” angry,” “critical,” “prideful,” “envious,” etc. [Don’t worry, I’ll repeat these labels during the meditation.]

You know all the “stuff” you get into. Just give the thought a name, a label and step back from it. By giving it a name, a label it somehow is no longer yours. It doesn’t attach to you. It is something outside of you. You’ve objectified it. You see it as separate from you.

This is Part I of a two part Blog.

May 9, 2008

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May 7, 2008

Peace of Mind is a Thought Away: Mastering Your Thoughts, Part VIII

Peace of Mind is always just a Thought away!

This is Part VIII of an eight Part Blog which began on April 14.

Now, in terms of how you sit or what you do when you meditate, the most important thing is to make sure you are physically comfortable. If you have the flexibility to sit in the yoga half-lotus or full lotus position, then certainly do so. If you don’t have the flexibility, then I would not recommend you try. You can meditate very effectively sitting comfortably in straight backed chair. This is the way I do it all the time. Just sit up straight with you spine erect, but not rigid. It is best that your feet lie flat on the floor and are not crossed. Your hands are in your lap, palms up or down, whatever is most comfortable for you.

As we proceed with the meditations, if at any point you are physically uncomfortable, then shift your body. Move around a bit. If you need to cough, then do so. Don’t spend your time suppressing a cough or being physically uncomfortable and then at the end conclude that you can’t meditate.

Again, the most important thing to remember as you start is to make sure you are comfortable while you are in meditation. I might add, though, not so comfortable that you fall asleep. By the way, I do not recommend that you lie on the floor or on a bed or on a lounge chair when you meditate because you are very likely to fall asleep. Lie down only if you have a significant physical problem that necessitates lying down. So, again, the idea is to be as comfortable as possible, yet still alert and then you will really enjoy and get the most out of the experience.

Also, please note that not all of your meditations will be blissful and calm. Sometimes when you sit down to meditate your mind will be like a wild, untamed horse. But that’s ok and to be expected at times! When this happens just do your best to observe rather than get caught up in the content of your mind’s madness and it will gradually dissipate. Eventually you will learn how to calm down even this kind of an overly stimulated mind. Be patient and persistent and you will with practice reach your goal of being peaceful and calm.

Lastly, please note that at the end of the meditation, I will leave you with a little extra time with just the music playing. This will allow you to gradually and slowly come up and out of the meditation and then you can resume your normal activities.

So, happy meditating! Peace be with you!

This is Part VIII of an eight Part Blog.

FYI, this “Thought Counting Meditation” is from my Meditation CD entitled: Peace of Mind is a Thought Away: Mastery Meditations.

If you are interested in finding out more about my Meditations CDs, please go to the following link: http://www.learnmastery.com/AudioTapesByYanni.htm

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May 5, 2008

Peace of Mind is a Thought Away: Mastering Your Thoughts, Part VII

This is Part VII of an eight part blog which began on April 14.

As I mentioned earlier, I will now lead you in a Thought Counting meditation. In order to help you to prepare for the meditation, which will be on my May 9th Podcast, today’s blog and Wednesday’s blog will consist of instructions on how to meditate.

Please use this meditation on a regular basis. You will be amazed at what you find out about yourself as you do it.

FYI, this “Thought Counting Meditation” is from my Meditation CD entitled: Peace of Mind is a Thought Away: Mastery Meditations.

If you are interested in finding out more about my Meditations CDs, please go to the following link: http://www.learnmastery.com/AudioTapesByYanni.htm

So, enJoy and Relax!

How to prepare to meditate?

Before you start to meditate, it is very important to settle yourself, to slow yourself down and to prepare an internal and external environment for relaxation. So, begin by creating a quiet, comfortable place for you to sit and meditate in. Dim the lights; close the door, and turn off the phones.

Also, it is preferable that every time you meditate it be at the same time and in the same place, but don’t be too rigid about this. It is more important that you actually meditate rather than that you adhere to a rigid schedule. But do know that by establishing a regular time and place for meditation, you are more likely to do it consistently because you are then creating a very clear new habit/pattern and intention that this is my time and my place to meditate.

As well, make sure that all significant others know that this is a quiet, private, undisturbed time just for you. This is your time to be with yourself, to meditate and to do nothing else. Also, pick a time that works for you, a time when you are usually not too busy. And, if the time you first choose doesn’t work for any reason, then change it and experiment until you do find a time and setting that works.

Please note, too, that it is most ideal to meditate every day, but don’t get too rigid about this either. Just start meditating as often as you can and then gradually build up to meditating every day. The more you meditate, the more you will want to, so let the frequency grow on its own.

Also, start off with whatever length of time you feel most comfortable with, even if it is only five minutes. Let the timeframe, as well, gradually become longer. It takes time, practice and patience to build up your meditation muscles. Don’t force any of this. But do be consistent and clear in your intentions.

If you have never meditated before and decide that you will now meditate for twenty minutes, two times a day, everyday, you are more than likely setting yourself up for failure, for self-sabotage. You will most likely go on overload and will quit in a few days. Just as you can’t run a marathon unless you have gradually built up your endurance, so, too, with meditation, let yourself gradually build up your endurance. So, go slow and get there fast!

Meditation is a life-long skill that you step by step integrate into your life. Don’t try to rush or push it! Let it all be easy and fun!

Peace of Mind is always just a Thought away!

This is Part VII of an eight Part Blog

May 2, 2008

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April 30, 2008

Peace of Mind is a Thought Away: Mastering Your Thoughts, Part VI

This is Part VI of an eight part blog which began on April 14.

Though the concepts I am presenting here may seem a little foreign to you or perhaps you are a bit skeptical about them on some level, I can assure you that as you start to look at your mind differently and your thought patterns differently, you can begin to step away from them and thus create a lot more peacefulness in your life.

Instead of being hijacked constantly by negative thoughts and endlessly being in a mode where your thoughts create a lot of wearisome suffering, you can instead consciously choose the thoughts or the patterns that you do want to have, namely the positive, uplifting ones, minus all the static, noisy, negative ones.

In time, you will have enough expertise and experience not to get lost in an energy- draining series of thoughts. You will learn how not to focus on a series of thoughts that bring you down rather than lift you up. You will learn that you can choose to go up rather than down with your thoughts. You can take the high road and stand on higher ground. You can choose your thoughts and, therefore, you can choose your experiences. You can be a master of your thoughts and, therefore, a master of your life!

So simply stated, your thoughts are objects. You can choose to “own” these objects, to buy into them, so to speak, to identify with them, to bring them into your house, to bring them into the garden of your mind, or not.

Yes, there are some very sticky thoughts we all have; so you begin practicing on the easy stuff and eventually you will be able to separate out or move away from the stickier stuff, too.

My “sticky” stuff appears at times. It hits me from behind, so it seems. But I have learned to say, “OK, here comes this show again. How did I get on this channel again? Let’s just kind of ignore it as much as we can.”

By having this internal dialogue, eventually I can change the channel. I can change my mind! I can turn the mute button on. I can switch channels. I have learned that I can really switch channels.

Sometimes the old “dumpy dumpster” chatter or some other life-draining pattern of thoughts comes in. But I can choose and I can change, if I practice. I can choose joy, happiness, peace, freedom, and enlightenment moment by moment, thought by thought; or I can choose their opposites.

Peace of mind is a choice, my choice!

Peace of mind is really just a thought away!

So next week I will lead you in a Thought Counting meditation which I urge you to use on a continual basis.

This is Part VI of an eight part blog.

April 28, 2008

Peace of Mind is a Thought Away: Mastering Your Thoughts, Part V

This is Part V of an eight part blog which began on April 14.

So, you can begin to practice this technique with simple things: for example, let’s say you drop something and get annoyed at yourself and then have a strong self critical thought. Instead of getting all upset with yourself, step back and note that you are having a self-critical thought, such as, “I am a jerk,” and distance your self from the self-criticism. Simply note or count the thought and laugh at it.

So, you begin with the smallest or easiest of thoughts and just simply give the thought a number; you count it and you step back from it. You give it a number; no matter where you are with it, no matter how intense you are about it.

Be assured that you are not the first person in the world who has gotten caught up in his/her thoughts, but you now have a way to step back from it all, to dis-identify from it, to not take it personally or seriously.

You would be amazed at the number of self-critical thoughts you have in a day. Just try counting them for one day or for just even one-hour or for even fifteen minutes; you would be astounded!

What you will learn from practicing this technique is how to master your mind. We were never given an “owner’s manual” for our minds. Now we can create one for ourselves. You are meant to make friends with your mind. As Dr. Charles Tart wrote; “We don’t know how our minds operate and hence we don’t operate them very well.”

This is Part V of an eight part blog.

April 25, 2008

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April 23, 2008

Peace of Mind is a Thought Away: Mastering Your Thoughts, Part IV

This is Part IV of an eight part blog which began on April 14.

Actually, you can literally be hijacked or held-hostage by your own thoughts. Some thoughts are so powerful that they create huge amounts fear or anger in you. And if you were to really feel what is going on in your body when you are having these thoughts, you would realize how insidious and damaging some thoughts are to you physiologically.

They create enormous amounts of tension which is the starting point of all illness. A bamboo stick hitting your fanny causes you a lot less damage physiologically than what you put your body through when you are caught in a negative cycle of thoughts.

So, the point of all this is to be your own loving roshi and to step back and dis-identify from your negative thought patterns. You can eventually learn not to identify with these thoughts. You can learn to see your thoughts as just something happening outside of you, so to speak, and not to you or inside you.

You don’t have to take your thoughts personally or seriously. You are not your thoughts. Thoughts have a very short shelf life, if you ignore them. And by learning to do this, you can truly live in the present and be so much more relaxed and a master of your thoughts.

If you were to look at your thoughts honestly and objectively, you would begin to realize that they are mostly just a rehash, an old tape, of all kinds of old junk. And if you don’t take them personally, you don’t have to get involved or enmeshed in them over and over again.

So, if you all of a sudden find yourself having an angry thought, or a fearful thought, you can become angry or afraid; and say and feel “I am angry” or “I am afraid.”

Or, instead you can step back and say, “I am having an angry thought.” “I am having a fearful thought.” And then let the thought start to dissipate by dis-identifying from it, by not feeding it any focus or energy. This is what it means to not take your thoughts personally or seriously.

You don’t have to get caught up in the drama of your thoughts. There is a huge difference between these two responses. You get to choose how you respond and thus what you experience.

This is Part IV of an eight part blog.

April 21, 2008

Peace of Mind is a Thought Away: Mastering Your Thoughts, Part III

This is Part III of an eight part blog which began on April 14.

Matter of fact, I’d like to tell you a story now. In Zen monasteries, you are expected to be mindful or conscious all the time and not just when you are meditating. In other words, when you are doing mundane chores like washing the dishes, working in the garden, preparing a meal, etc., you are expected to be in the present and focused on the task at hand and not so lost in your thoughts that someone could easily sneak up on you.

When you are lost in your thoughts someone can easily surprise you. When you are not lost in your thoughts and are truly present, focused totally on the task at hand, you will notice if someone or something has just come into your proximity. You are able to sense what is really happening because you are not caught up in past or future thinking. You are truly present.

The head monk in Zen monasteries, called the roshi, in order to instill the idea of always being present or mindful in his monks, would often quietly and stealthily walk around the monastery with a bamboo stick. He would walk up to a monk unannounced. And, if the monk was lost in his thoughts, he would whack him in the fanny with the bamboo stick.

Now if the monk was practicing mindfulness, if the monk was fully conscious and present, the monk would be aware of the roshi’s presence, turn around, bow to the roshi and the roshi would then bow back to him and would pass him by. If, on the other hand, the monk was preoccupied in his thoughts, his fanny would very well know that the roshi had just snuck up on him.

The most important lesson to learn from this story is that you can be totally distracted by your thoughts and miss out on something really important that is going on right in front of you.

This is Part III of an eight part blog.

April 18, 2008

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